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23/02/2026

What is trauma? What does it mean to be a trauma-informed counselor? How should we biblically understand suffering, personal responsibility, and the hope of ...

23/02/2026

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Den ultimo lunanan Aruba a mira un aumento alarmante den casonan di suicidio y intento di suicidio. Den un pais chikito manera nos, cada bida cu bay perdi ta pisa duro riba familia, bario y comunidad. Pero ora cifra nan cuminsa mustra un patron, no por trata esaki como incidente separa, esaki ta un....

12/02/2026

Explore the resources available on our website to find the support you need for your journey towards peace and healing. Discover how biblical counseling can empower you to overcome life's challenges and grow spiritually.

09/02/2026

Are human limits, like death, a problem technology should solve?

From brain uploading to gene editing, transhumanism says, "Yes." But what does Scripture say?

Read More: https://www.logos.com/grow/min-transhumanism-and-the-bible/

09/02/2026

04/02/2026

This February, Let’s Focus on What and Who Love Is...

04/01/2026

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27/12/2025

At Agape Biblical Counseling, we wish the Community of Aruba and the world a Blessed New Year 2026, filled with Wisdom, Humility, Hope, and Joy.

In 2026, lets focus on moments of stillness, reflecting on God and deepen our relationship with Him.
May we grow closer to His Word and His Presence, experiencing the fullness of His Peace throughout the year.

26/12/2025

This sin and addiction is one we all struggle with. Mr. Crew's testimony is a real one. Po*******hy is sexual immorality and thus adultery and fornication. You betray your spouse by looking at it. Many fall victim to this sin, especially those closest to God. This sin thrives in the dark, in secrecy, but dies in the light. If you are struggling with p**n addiction and/or lust, reach out! We can help you overcome this sin. For free! By God's grace.

Terry Crews has never pretended his faith journey was clean or easy. In fact, he says everything started to fall apart when he realized he was wearing a mask—looking strong on the outside while quietly losing control on the inside.

For years, Terry hid a p**nography addiction, telling himself the same lie a lot of addicts believe: “I can quit anytime.” But he couldn’t. And slowly, it began to poison the way he saw people—especially his wife, Rebecca.

“Porn doesn’t just stay on a screen,” Terry said. “It changes how you see people. They stop being people and start becoming objects.”

Rebecca could feel something was wrong long before Terry admitted it. When she finally pressed him for the truth, Terry says God stopped him cold.

“I heard it as clear as day,” he recalled. “If you don’t come clean with her, I’m done with you.”

When Terry confessed, the fallout was immediate. Rebecca asked him to leave. Their marriage, which looked solid from the outside, was suddenly broken wide open.

“That gasp she made when I told her,” Terry said, “that was the sound of reality hitting. Everything was real now.”

Instead of trying to fix his marriage first, Terry was challenged by his pastor to do something harder: work on himself—even if it didn’t guarantee reconciliation.

“That flipped a switch for me,” Terry said. “I realized I had to get better for me, not to win her back.”

So he went to rehab, risking his image, career, and pride. That decision changed everything for Rebecca.

“When he said he was really going,” she said, “I knew this was different. He wasn’t protecting his image anymore. And that’s when God started working on my heart too.”

Rebecca is honest that forgiveness wasn’t instant.

“Forgiveness can happen in a moment,” she explained, “but trust has to be rebuilt over time.”

She describes God leading her step by step—allowing consequences, demanding accountability, but also calling her to walk alongside Terry if real change showed up.

And it did.

Today, the Crews say their marriage survived only by God’s grace—and by brutal honesty. Terry now shares his story publicly because secrecy, he says, is where addiction thrives.

“When you bring it into the light,” he said, “it loses its power.”

Looking back, Terry believes pride was his biggest enemy.

“I kept saying, ‘I’m fine,’” he admitted. “But God kept asking, ‘Are you really okay?’ And when I finally said no—that’s when healing started.”

Now, they use their story to remind others of a hard truth: faith isn’t about looking holy—it’s about getting real. And sometimes, God saves a marriage by first breaking the mask.

23/12/2025

From our friends at the American Association of Christian Counselors

22/12/2025

At Agape Biblical Counseling, we extend our heartfelt wishes to the community of Aruba and beyond: a Merry Christmas filled with peace, joy, and laughter.

We also lift our prayers for those walking through this season with heavy hearts, missing loved ones or carrying quiet burdens. May this Christmas be a time of love, reflection, and gentle healing, reminding us that the light of Christ shines even in the darkest nights.

22/12/2025

This Christmas, lets focus on a moment of stillness and remember the heart of the season. It’s not found in gifts or gatherings, but in the radiant reminder of God’s love made flesh. In Christ’s birth we find grace, hope, and joy that no tradition can match. Celebrate with wisdom, love with abundance, and rejoice in the greatest gift of all—our Savior, the King who came near, Christ Jesus”