Agape Biblical Counseling

04/01/2026

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27/12/2025

At Agape Biblical Counseling, we wish the Community of Aruba and the world a Blessed New Year 2026, filled with Wisdom, Humility, Hope, and Joy.

In 2026, lets focus on moments of stillness, reflecting on God and deepen our relationship with Him.
May we grow closer to His Word and His Presence, experiencing the fullness of His Peace throughout the year.

26/12/2025

This sin and addiction is one we all struggle with. Mr. Crew's testimony is a real one. Po*******hy is sexual immorality and thus adultery and fornication. You betray your spouse by looking at it. Many fall victim to this sin, especially those closest to God. This sin thrives in the dark, in secrecy, but dies in the light. If you are struggling with p**n addiction and/or lust, reach out! We can help you overcome this sin. For free! By God's grace.

Terry Crews has never pretended his faith journey was clean or easy. In fact, he says everything started to fall apart when he realized he was wearing a mask—looking strong on the outside while quietly losing control on the inside.

For years, Terry hid a p**nography addiction, telling himself the same lie a lot of addicts believe: “I can quit anytime.” But he couldn’t. And slowly, it began to poison the way he saw people—especially his wife, Rebecca.

“Porn doesn’t just stay on a screen,” Terry said. “It changes how you see people. They stop being people and start becoming objects.”

Rebecca could feel something was wrong long before Terry admitted it. When she finally pressed him for the truth, Terry says God stopped him cold.

“I heard it as clear as day,” he recalled. “If you don’t come clean with her, I’m done with you.”

When Terry confessed, the fallout was immediate. Rebecca asked him to leave. Their marriage, which looked solid from the outside, was suddenly broken wide open.

“That gasp she made when I told her,” Terry said, “that was the sound of reality hitting. Everything was real now.”

Instead of trying to fix his marriage first, Terry was challenged by his pastor to do something harder: work on himself—even if it didn’t guarantee reconciliation.

“That flipped a switch for me,” Terry said. “I realized I had to get better for me, not to win her back.”

So he went to rehab, risking his image, career, and pride. That decision changed everything for Rebecca.

“When he said he was really going,” she said, “I knew this was different. He wasn’t protecting his image anymore. And that’s when God started working on my heart too.”

Rebecca is honest that forgiveness wasn’t instant.

“Forgiveness can happen in a moment,” she explained, “but trust has to be rebuilt over time.”

She describes God leading her step by step—allowing consequences, demanding accountability, but also calling her to walk alongside Terry if real change showed up.

And it did.

Today, the Crews say their marriage survived only by God’s grace—and by brutal honesty. Terry now shares his story publicly because secrecy, he says, is where addiction thrives.

“When you bring it into the light,” he said, “it loses its power.”

Looking back, Terry believes pride was his biggest enemy.

“I kept saying, ‘I’m fine,’” he admitted. “But God kept asking, ‘Are you really okay?’ And when I finally said no—that’s when healing started.”

Now, they use their story to remind others of a hard truth: faith isn’t about looking holy—it’s about getting real. And sometimes, God saves a marriage by first breaking the mask.

23/12/2025

From our friends at the American Association of Christian Counselors

22/12/2025

At Agape Biblical Counseling, we extend our heartfelt wishes to the community of Aruba and beyond: a Merry Christmas filled with peace, joy, and laughter.

We also lift our prayers for those walking through this season with heavy hearts, missing loved ones or carrying quiet burdens. May this Christmas be a time of love, reflection, and gentle healing, reminding us that the light of Christ shines even in the darkest nights.

22/12/2025

This Christmas, lets focus on a moment of stillness and remember the heart of the season. It’s not found in gifts or gatherings, but in the radiant reminder of God’s love made flesh. In Christ’s birth we find grace, hope, and joy that no tradition can match. Celebrate with wisdom, love with abundance, and rejoice in the greatest gift of all—our Savior, the King who came near, Christ Jesus”

08/12/2025

Alcohol y Aruba: Enfrentando e Berdad

Na Aruba, alcohol ta hinca den tur fiesta y celebracion. For di Pasco te carnaval, famianan ta warda, y celebracionan hopi biaha ta bai den exceso. Pero tras di e harimento, hospital y centro mediconan ta mira e costo: intoxicacion, accidente y asta morto.

Alcohol ta priminti scapamento temporario, pero nunca e no ta kita e dolor, alcontrario, e ta trece solamente problemanan nobo. Buracheria no ta libertad; e ta sclavitud. Pa Cristiannan, e ta mas cu un malesa, e ta idolatria, un refugio falso cu ta remplasa Dios.

E bon notisia ta cu tin yudansa. Tin esnan cu ta duna cuido, y ta guia hende na Cristo.
Aruba no mester di mas boter, e mester di mas speransa. Berdadero sanacion no ta bini di rom of biña, pero di e Spirito di Dios, kende so por restora bidanan kibra.

Diasabra mainta for di 8or Romar Cash and Carry a habri porta pa e pueblo. Locura di prijs riba biña cu whisky y demas producto cu Romar tin na bebida.…

11/11/2025

19/10/2025

Beware of an easy, comfortable and laxed life that becomes an idol that puts God second. Remember that we shall worship The Lord our God, and serve Him only. Not ourselves. - Matthew 4:8-10.

09/09/2025

September is Su***de Prevention Awareness Month.
It’s a time to speak up, break the silence, and remind every soul in pain: you are not alone.
Help is near. Hope is real. Healing is possible.
If you or someone you love is struggling, please reach out at 565 3998 or 131
God is near. We’re here. Your story is safe with us.

Be not overly wicked, neither be a fool. Why should you die before your time? Ecclesiastes 7:17 ESV