18/12/2025
๐๐ง๐ฆ๐๐ญ ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐๐จ๐ฆ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ.
What I often see in sessions
is that triggers rarely arrive as a crisis.
They show up in the smallest moments.
A friend who doesnโt check in.
A message that takes too long.
A partner who reacts โthe wrong way.โ
A family member who doesnโt notice the struggle.
When we slow down and look beneath the surface,
the intensity often points to something older,
a younger part that once learned:
โI shouldnโt ask too much.โ
โI need to be perfect to be seen.โ
โPeople leave when I express my needs.โ
Your emotions arenโt exaggerations.
Theyโre indicators.
Flashlights illuminating the places where your system is still asking for care and attention.
Emotional regulation doesnโt erase your expectations.
It helps you meet the right part of the story
and it protects both your relationships and yourself.
What if this week,
you simply notice one moment where your emotion spikes quickly?
Instead of analysing the situation, you ask:
๐๐ก๐ข๐๐ก ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ญ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ?
Showing up with empathy to this part of you can soften the whole experience.
If you recognise a pattern of being easily triggered and want support to untangle it,
and to regulate faster, with more ease,
youโre welcome to reach out.