05/29/2026
Genuinely though.
Singing, laughing, being a little ridiculous in your kitchen... that's ventral vagal activation. That's co-regulation. That's your system remembering what it feels like to be safe enough to be silly.
We talk a lot about the hard work of healing.
And it is hard work.
But some of it also looks like:
Car concerts.
Dancing when no one asked you to.
Hoola hooping even when no one wants to do it with you.
Buying the cozy drink just because.
Laying on the floor with your pet.
Letting your kids turn you into a jungle gym.
Creating something badly but joyfully.
Small. Ordinary. Quietly revolutionary.
What's your spatula song? Drop it below!
This content is for reflection and education only and isn't a substitute for individualized therapeutic support. 💛