09/17/2025
When someone asks me to tell their loved one in spirit that they love them, I always begin with the same reassurance. Your words already travel there. Spirits hear us whether we speak out loud or hold the message quietly inside our heads. Love is not lost in silence; it is felt.
Think of the connection between you and your person as an invisible lifeline, a thread that pulls tight the moment you think of them. That immediate thought brings them nearer, like a current that closes the distance. They are not far away, they are close enough to notice when you call their name, feel your longing, and receive your love.
Spirits are, in a way, omnipresent. They can be in many places at once with a single thought. They live in a kind of dreamworld where intention shapes reality, and where ego does not interrupt the flow the way it does for us. Because they are free from that human self, their awareness is gentle, clear, and attuned to the hearts that hold them.
If you are worried that you must perform the right ritual, say the perfect words, or speak loudly to be heard, let that worry go. Speak simply, speak honestly, or think of them with love. That love crosses the invisible rope between you, and in my work, I watch it travel back and wrap around people in spirit like a warm, familiar blanket.
You are not alone, and neither are they. Love reaches, love is received, and the bond endures.
Jay Lane
