04/15/2026
🙏🏼Thank you to those who attended our wonderful Breath work Session with Ray Lugo this week.
Here are some extra tools and tricks that you might consider trying to keep that good breath work going💨
Between looking out for our families, managing our homes, and navigating our digital lives, it’s easy to live in "shallow breathing" mode. We’re often so busy taking care of everyone else that our own nervous systems are stuck on high alert.
Breath work isn’t just a wellness trend; it’s a way to tell your body, "You are safe, you are grounded, and you are in control." Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by a long to-do list or just need a moment of peace before bed, here are 3 tools to help you find your exhale:
1. The "Exhale Longer" Rule 🌬️
The simplest trick to calm your heart rate is to make your exhale twice as long as your inhale. Try breathing in for a count of 4 and breathing out for a count of 8. This sends an immediate signal to your brain to move out of "stress mode" and into "rest mode."
2. Insight Timer (Free App) 📱
While many apps charge a subscription, Insight Timer has a massive library of free guided breathing exercises specifically for women. Look for "Yoga Nidra" or "Coherent Breathing" sessions—they are wonderful for calming the mind before sleep.
3. The "Five Senses" Grounding 🖐️
If you feel your anxiety rising while scrolling online or dealing with a stressful task:
Stop.
Take a deep breath.
Acknowledge 5 things you can see, 4 you can touch, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, and 1 you can taste.
Finish with one more deep, intentional breath.
Let’s check in: Drop a "☁️" in the comments if you’re joining us in taking one deep, mindful breath right now. You’ve earned this moment of peace!