06/30/2025
Actions have consequences.
Just like objects in light cast shadows.
While awareness illuminates, the edges of that awareness also become visible.
We all live inside our own unique expression of light and shadow.
I’m reminded of the ancient Taoist symbol, Yin and Yang.
Light exists within all darkness, and darkness within all light.
Light and shadow invite reflection.
How are we living most fully in our light — our joy, values, and purpose?
Where are the edges?
Where is the pain, or the edge of pleasure?
What are the causes of our suffering?
What drains our power?
And what is for us to illuminate, to tend to, to heal?
This is where embodiment practice lives.
The ability to stay with ourselves.
To move between light and shadow as explorers of our own experience,
without abandoning ourselves along the way.
The body never lies.
This is why I offer Embodied Movement classes that use gentle, somatic practices to reconnect us to our bodies and our inner knowing.
It’s also why, in my coaching work, we lean on nervous system tools like breathwork, to stay present, steady, and capable of navigating hard things from a grounded place.
The deeper your connection to the real you, and the more honestly you express that outwardly, the more natural vulnerability becomes.
And vulnerability is where connection lives.
As Dr. Brené Brown reminds us, it is the foundation for true belonging.
And none of that works without boundaries.
Light knows its boundaries. There are lines it will not cross.
For us to stand in our light, and to protect it, we have to be willing to hold boundaries that honour us.
The best boundaries are made of love.
They are not about punishing or controlling others.
They are about guiding ourselves.
They are the promises we make to ourselves about how we will respond in situations that challenge our values or safety.
When boundaries are used to control or manipulate, that's not protection — that's coercion.
And when coercion becomes the pattern, it creates systems of control that rob everyone of choice.
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