11/27/2025
As parents and adults, it’s easy to view children’s behaviour in black-and-white terms—good or bad, obedient or defiant. But what if we approached these moments with curiosity instead of judgment?
When a child acts out, it’s often a sign that they’re struggling with stressors or skill deficits, not that they’re being lazy, rude, or defiant. Instead of rushing to punishment, let’s pause and ask ourselves: What might be driving this behaviour? What support does this child need to feel strong, understood, and safe?
By shifting our perspective from judgment to understanding, we can create an environment where children feel seen and supported, rather than shamed or frustrated. This approach not only helps in addressing the root cause of the behaviour but also strengthens the bond between you and the child.
Remember, every challenging behaviour is an opportunity to connect and guide them towards resilience. 💪✨
For parenting support or assistance in managing parental stress, contact us to schedule a session at:
amy@newleafpsychotherapy.ca
(705) 881-5606
www.newleafpsychotherapy.ca