06/21/2025
A village can do both but without support for the mother, both may struggle more in their journey together 💓
Did you know that when I began this journey and I had to brand myself and create my business, our instructors asked us to come up with a BHAG (a term coined by Jim Collins and Jerry Pollas) which means a Big Hairy Audacious Goal...
So I thought it thru long and hard and came to this - if at the end of my work life I could say that I've "held all the babies in Northumberland" then that is what my BHAG would be. Because passionately I knew that if I have held all the babies, imagine all those parents that I have supported in my time as a Doula??? That, is pure magic to me!!
And then Dou North came to me, with the tag line Northumberlands Maternal Doula. Dou North also metaphors somewhat directional and my core goals are to listen to the families I am with, hear their own instincts, build their confidence and help guide them to trust who they are as a parent as they are the BEST person for their child. As well as support them to get there healthily, heard, validated and cared for.
What an incredible role I have right??!! How incredibly lucky am I that families trust me to be present at their birth, bearing witness to their most vulnerable space and then welcome me into their home and trust me to care for them as essentially a stranger (tho I make sure they get to know me pretty quick when we meet lol!).... Let me shout it to the Northumberland Hills, I could not be more honored than to be this for them and I hope it has conveyed as we have spent our time together. I truly love this path that I am on.
Thank you 💗