04/07/2026
Menopause research is… let’s just say, not exactly topping the funding charts. Which means a lot of women are out here navigating this phase with outdated advice and a whole lot of guesswork.
And I am living it, so I get it.
The shifts, the changes… the moments where you feel a little like, “who even is this version of me?”
But here’s what we do know:
❌Your body didn’t suddenly decide to betray you
❌ You’re still very capable of building strength
❌ Nutrition still matters and your body still responds to it
So if things feel harder, it’s not because you’re failing…it’s because you’ve likely been handed the wrong playbook.
That whole “eat less, move more, add more cardio, cut everything out” approach?
Yeah… not it.
In fact, in perimenopause and beyond, it can make things worse.
The shift most women actually need: You probably need more, not less.
More protein
More strength training (and yes, that means lifting heavier)
More food to properly support your body
Because with estrogen dropping, your body is already working against your muscle, you don’t need to pile on more stress.
You’re not broken.
You’re not losing yourself.
You’re just being asked to do this phase differently.
And once that clicks?
Things start to feel a whole lot more like you again.