10/06/2025
This beautiful mama has been part of my monthly doula group for quite some time, which meant that by the time her baby’s birth approached, I knew her well. I’d watched her connect with other women, ask questions, and grow confident in her own intuition. That kind of connection is such a gift, for her, for me, and for everyone in the circle.
When she was told she needed to be induced for high blood pressure, she handled the news with calm understanding. Preeclampsia is a serious condition that absolutely deserves conversation and careful management. What stood out to me, though, was what happened next, she was told to call and check for availability, and every time she did, the hospital was full. September was an incredibly busy month, and while this was no one’s fault, it highlighted something I often think about: how the urgency of certain interventions can shift when resources are stretched. It’s a reminder that birth happens within systems run by humans, compassionate, skilled, but human nonetheless.
When she finally went in, her baby was in a posterior (OP) position, which can make labour longer and more intense. She tried every position and movement we could think of to help her baby rotate before deciding to get an epidural. For anyone planning an epidural and knowing their baby might not be ideally positioned, I always recommend taking even a little time beforehand to work on movement and positioning while it’s easiest to do so.
Later, when she was fully dilated, she began pushing but baby was still quite high. After some time, we gently discussed pausing to allow more descent. She rested. She trusted. She waited. And when her body told her it was time again, she knew. She told us she needed to stand. Even with the epidural, she still had good movement, so the nurse and I helped her to her feet. She moved instinctively, letting gravity and her body’s wisdom do the work and forty-five minutes later, she was holding her baby.
It was such a beautiful reminder that even in a birth with medical interventions, intuition still leads the way.