09/03/2021
THE GREAT HELMET DEBATE
Do you OR Don't you OR Only Sometimes?
So I for one will not die on this hill, however I am slowly (why so slowly?) changing my mind as to why helmets are becoming a regular part of my riding attire and are already a staple in that of my daughters.
I grew up like many farm kids; not even owning a helmet, riding barefoot, galloping across a summerfallow field at top speed. I still to this day have a slight sense of invincibility that could start hindering me as I get older (no momma, your knees won't handle that anymore). I came off many times, hitting my head amongst other things, and I was pretty darn fortunate to never receive anything more than a bit of a headache. Grace of God I imagine.
But, that being said, I still struggle with a bit of self-consciousness in this area as well! I hate the way I look in a helmet, I feel less accomplished and my ego takes a bit of a bruising. Ridiculous right?! But I'm being honest. If I wear a helmet at a clinic, will the non-helmet riders snicker under their breath? If I wear one at a jackpot, will it be thought that I'm not as capable and I don't belong with the big girls or boys? That I am fearful and inexperienced? I think the bigger question here is why do I put so much stock in the opinions of others? So much so as to put my own safety second to their "alleged" thoughts? And I say alleged because I have no proof they are thinking these things...I'm sure most of it is my own demons croaking.
I'm thinking my non-commital to wearing my helmet has a lot of it has to do with tradition; the amazing breed called cowboys are rarely to be seen donning the modern head protection, unless of course they might be climbing onto the back of a bull... and I can't argue with them. I have no desire to tell those old souls what to do. However, I'd love to start this conversation again . Are any of us immune to tradegy? Are we so talented that accidents can't happen?
My middle daughter, B, was riding her horse the other day in the arena, just cruising around having fun. The footing was great, the horse warmed up well, my daughter well seated. The helicopter mom in me has taught them to wear a helmet from a very young age, so thankfully she was wearing hers. At a lope, her horse stumbled out of the blue, landing on both front knees and then nose planting and literally eating dirt. B flew over the horse's head, hitting the side of her head hard and skidding down onto her shoulder and back. It happened so quickly I couldn't even gasp before B was already starting to get back up. We checked her all over, did a concussion test, and concluded that she would survive; thank goodness!! She determinedly hopped back on her horse after a thorough check of her as well, and finished the rest of her ride without incident. In this case, the helmet may not have saved her life, but it sure as heck saved some gravelly scratches across B's scalp and face. I'm so glad it wasn't worse, and that all we have to show for it is a scratched up piece of head gear.
As for me, I'm going to think hard and fast before scowling at and then "forgetting" my own helmet when I go for a ride now. It's really just about doing what's best for my own health and the well being of my children.
So I'd love for you to honestly ponder, what's best for you?