05/14/2026
Some relationships stay with us long after they’ve ended. Not always because they were healthy or aligned… but because they activated something deep within us.
Jung believed we sometimes project unconscious parts of ourselves onto another person:
our longing, our wounds, our unlived potential, our unmet needs.
That can make the connection feel magnetic, consuming, even fated.
The feelings are real.
The attachment is real.
Yet sometimes what we’re grieving is not only the person… but the version of ourselves that came alive around them.
New SEEK blog now live:
Is Love Just a Projection? Jung on Why We Can’t Stop Thinking About the Wrong Person
Link in bio.