03/05/2026
🤍 ADHD 🤍
I’ve always been passionate about mental health, but lately that passion has taken on a whole new meaning to me.
As an adult, I was recently diagnosed with ADHD. It was like someone turned on a light in a room I didn’t even know I was sitting in. At first, I didn’t feel relieved. I felt sad. Sad for all the years I spent thinking I was lazy, or “just not trying hard enough”. Suddenly, so many things made sense, the constant mental noise, losing everything, forgetting appointments, starting a task while in the middle of another task, struggling to do “simple” tasks, emotional overwhelm, and yet being able to hyper focus on things I love. For so long, I turned all of that into a character flaw and was incredibly hard on myself.
Then when I gave up alcohol everything intensified. Without realizing it, I had been using it to numb and regulate my overstimulated nervous system. Once I stopped drinking, my ADHD symptoms became impossible to ignore. That’s what finally pushed me to dive deeper, get assessed, and finally receive the diagnosis.
I was prescribed medication, however at this time I have chosen not to take it. This isn’t anti-medication. Medication can be life-changing, and saving. I’m not ruling it out for the future, but at this moment I’m experimenting with other ways to support my nervous system and work WITH my brain instead of constantly trying to fight it.
For me, that looks like:
💫 Supplementation
💫 Mindful movement
💫 Balanced nutrition
💫 Nervous system regulation
💫 Self-compassion (the hardest one)
The diagnosis didn’t fix everything, but it gave me a framework. I’m slowly shifting from “What’s wrong with me” to “What does my brain need, and how can I work with it?”. This shift, alongside a very loving and supportive partner has allowed me to start to understand how MY brain works better than I ever have.
If you’re an adult discovering ADHD, or even just suspecting it….you’re not broken or lazy. You’ve been doing your best with a brain that works differently in a world that wasn’t built for it. Learning this isn’t the end of the story, it’s the beginning of a much more honest, compassionate one.
Sarah 🤍