05/06/2026
My newest book is available.
You didn’t lose yourself overnight. So you’re not going to find yourself overnight either. Coming Back to Yourself: How To Rebuild Identity and Self Trust After An Abusive Relationship is for the woman who can’t explain why she still misses someone who hurt her - who keeps replaying conversations, second-guessing her reality, and wondering when she’ll feel like herself again.
If you’ve been in a toxic or abusive relationship that left you anxious, obsessed, confused, numb, or constantly walking on eggshells… this book is for you. Not the “just think positive” version of you. The you who’s exhausted. The you who’s trying to heal, but keeps getting pulled back into the same mental loop.
This is a grounded, compassionate guide for rebuilding after an abusive relationship - especially when leaving didn’t magically make you feel free. It helps you understand what happened, why it was so hard to leave (or stay gone), and how to start coming home to yourself - without shame, without minimizing, and without turning healing into another job you fail at.
Woven throughout are the real stories of three women - different lives, different relationships, the same familiar patterns - so you can see what recovery looks like in real time: the backslides, the breakthroughs, the moments you swear you’re “fine”… and the moments you realize you’re still carrying it in your body.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GZ34KZGQ