10/08/2025
I had an appointment with my endocrinologist this week. And while I love my endocrinologist, I don’t love some of his office’s practices.
The first thing the case manager said to me:
“Let’s get your weight to start off.”
I said: “No. I’m not gonna do that.”
I was very polite, but also very forthright.
She looked back at me, a bit quizzical, and said: “Excuse me?”
I said: “Oh, I’m sorry, I’m not getting on there.”
I wasn’t sorry for my refusal to be weighed, but maybe she didn’t hear me the first time.
She said: “Ok.” And that was it. No further pressure or requests. We moved on.
My endocrinologist is quite familiar with, and respectful of, my resistance to being weighed and the many reasons I don’t believe it’s a valid tool for my T1D care.
The case manager is new. She didn’t know. And while I suspect that she was taken aback initially, she didn’t challenge me.
I respect that.
Friends – we have the right to say no when it comes to our care. If we don’t agree with something, we can absolutely say no. We are a valuable part of team-based care. Our voice matters.