26/12/2025
What were the lessons life provided to you this year?
A year doesn’t teach us facts about ourselves, but time reveals our patterns, if we're willing to ask the questions, and are open to listening. Yoga gently redirects this inquiry inward, away from judging of others, and toward self-study. And self-awareness is the only place from which changes are possible.
Here are a few ways to approach this year end reflection:
- By examining the fluctuations of the mind. This year might have shown more clearly how the mind moves under pressure, uncertainty, love, or loss. Not who or what caused the reactions, but how quickly we grasp, resist, narrate, or soften. We can’t stop the waves of the mind, but we can see them as waves, rather than the ocean itself. The further down we dive, away from the waves, the calmer the ocean becomes.
- By examining the need to control timing, outcomes, relationships, even versions of ourselves. Rather than blaming circumstances, others or ourselves, yoga invites us to loosen the grip on the outcome, allowing life to happen through us. No situation or emotion is final.
- By examining the difference between effort and forcing. On the mat, as well as in life, yoga invites us to pay attention to this fine line, with our body, breath, nervous system, to consider if the effort we're applying is still nourishing, or if discipline has become self-harm disguised as virtue.
- By examining the capacity to stay present with discomfort, instead of fleeing, always needing to fix, or hardening at the edges. This is resilience, the quiet strength, the ability to remain grounded without collapsing, and without armoring or raising walls around the heart.
This year's experiences happened, emotions rose and fell, roles shifted. How did you show up for all these, what were your patterns? Stop to ask the questions, pay attention and discover your reality. Start here, now.
“The quieter you become, the more you can hear.”
- Ram Dass