03/25/2026
After 7 years - here is what I hear the most, from the men, women, teens, working on the conditioning and expectations we took on unknowingly. It’s still the foundation of everything. If you take things personally, fear judgment, worry what someone will think, are rushing - rushing - rushing, doing-doing-doing, worry about disappointing others, you are stuck in the “choice trap” as I call it.
Coming from love just FYI! Hear me out!🙏🏻🥰
You actually have choice, and it’s your superpower. Maybe you have never stopped to think about it, or maybe you aren’t feeling worthy of changing because of what people have said, or your upbringing etc.
I’m here to let you know that you were born to have choice. We all were born with free will. We’ve all had big or small circumstances happen for us to learn and grow from and it all starts with a choice.
Yes you can make a choice that is for YOUR highest good as when you do, it actually is for everyone else’s highest good too.
But when you make yourself small or act like you don’t matter, or don’t speak up for yourself, that’s the energy that goes out to those around you and that’s what you will experience back. It doesn’t feel good at all and it’s robbing you of the joy your deserve.
The Law of Attraction is always at play.
So when you pause to take notice, and make a new choice, the smallest of choices in any given moment to make yourself FEEL better….the ripple effect of good will start.
Need to slow down? Make a choice to take 5 deep breaths in your car before you go into the next meeting/building/party.
Need to have a courageous conversation with someone? Pause and hold your heart and speak about how YOU feel (not what they did)!
These are the two most common conversations I have with my clients.
I hear, “I don’t have time”.
And “she/he did this and I feel frustrated”
There’s a choice here for you.
The question is, will you honour yourself enough to exercise your choice?
When you do, your extraordinary life will start to emerge!
Maybe it’s a boss, a friend, a coworker, a partner or a kid…..it’s time🙏🏻
I’m here for it all and hope you are too.
Xo.
Binu