08/26/2021
Using words like courageous, brave, inspirational when describing a person with a disability will most likely do more harm than good. While this usually comes from good intentions it isn’t received in that way because it is demeaning the person with a disability.
If there are 2 people that both achieve their MBA, one with a disability and one without, you might say “you are so inspirational” to the person with the disability and “that’s a great achievement” to the person without.
But why is there a difference in how you congratulate them, they both achieved the same thing? It is important to remember that a person with a disability is not suffering from their disability, rather they are proudly living with it.
Please keep in mind you should not be highlighting the fact that someone has a disability, rather highlight what they have accomplished.
[Photo Description: All 3 images have a yellow background with a multicolored brain logo in the top centre of the page and a white textbox with varying text for each image. The text for each image is as the following:
First Image: What is Victim Mentality?
Second Image: Definition of Victim Mentality? Victim Mentality refers to a state of mind in which a person feels helpless and as though the world is against them
Third Image: How are you reinforcing this? “You are so brave” “I am so inspired by you” “I can’t believe you achieved this with your disability” are phrases that reinforce victim mentality on people with disabilities]