11/18/2024
Here's Who We Are: Patricia
The people who choose to live in an Abbeyfield House aren’t just residents. They are friends and neighbours, mothers and fathers, aunts and uncles, grandmothers and grandfathers. They have lived and learned much, have stories to tell, and lots more life to live. They chose to live in an Abbeyfield shared house because they want to live independently, but not alone.
Take, for example, Patricia. Patricia was born during World War II in the seaside town of Bournemouth, on the southwest coast of England. She was too young to remember much from the war years, but she does remember the bombed-out buildings from German air raids. Happier memories of her home town include walking down steep paths to get to the seven-mile stretch of sandy beach that have made Bournemouth a popular resort town.
At age 16, Patricia met her husband-to-be at a Youth Club dance. They courted, married and soon thereafter moved to London, where her husband worked in the insurance sector. But London proved too expensive for the young couple, especially after having their first son. So, in the mid-1960s they took a chance and with a four-month-old baby, and no job lined up, they moved to Toronto.
Patricia’s husband quickly found a job, and Patricia also worked for an insurance company. A second son came along, and the couple built a happy life together. After more than 60 years of marriage, Patricia’s husband passed away. Rather than living alone in the family home, Patricia decided she preferred to live with others. She moved into an Abbeyfield House on a picturesque tree-lined street just a block up from Toronto’s Scarborough Bluffs. Now she is within a few blocks of one of her sons, and near enough a close friend to have regular visits.
At Abbeyfield House Scarborough Bluffs, Patricia can often be found in the garden, taking walks in the neighbourhood, or helping out around the house however she can. She is not one to be idle, and her warm manner and wry sense of humour have made her a welcome addition to the House.
Patricia’s story is far from over. Recently, her sons took her on a holiday back to Bournemouth, where she had a bittersweet moment visiting the church where she and her husband were married all those years ago. The memory of it brought tears to her eyes, but Patricia is also not one to live in the past. With her sons, they visited with friends and relatives from Scotland and Sweden on this trip, and she looking forward to staying in touch with them all, and creating more memorable life events.