11/06/2025
Am i being too picky or are these red flags?
Sometimes it’s not that your standards are too high,
it’s that you’ve finally stopped mistaking bare minimum for effort.
you can be compassionate and discerning.
you can see someone’s potential and still protect your peace.
you can want connection without abandoning your intuition.
If you have to talk yourself into being okay with something…
you probably aren’t.
✨ trust your gut. it’s not picky, it’s wise.