
09/09/2025
No one will ever love you exactly the way you want.
That’s the hard truth. We all carry invisible scripts of what love should look like, and when it doesn’t match, we feel disappointed.
But here’s the thing: telling someone they’re not enough rarely inspires them to try harder.
What does?
✨ Letting them know the ways they are showing up.
✨ Appreciating the effort that’s already there.
✨ Creating safety instead of criticism.
When people feel seen for what they give, they often give more. When they feel like they’re always falling short, they shut down.
Tips to practice:
1. Instead of saying, “You never…”, try “I love when you…”.
2. Notice small efforts and name them out loud.
3. Remember love isn’t about perfection, it’s about building trust that grows over time.
Love thrives where it’s nurtured, not where it’s measured against impossible expectations. 🌱