06/19/2024
My dad requested very little of me in life, but in death, he wanted two things: that "Amazing Grace" be played by bagpipes and that I lead the ceremony as his celebrant. The first request was simple, but the second, not so much. Despite my protests that I couldn't handle it emotionally, he insisted, saying, "You can and you will!"
And so, with his fanciest pair of shoes next to me the whole time, he was right: I could, and I did.
It was essential to include, among other things, his generous spirit, Scottish heritage, Canadian gratitude, love of golf, roast beef, and sticky toffee pudding.
It was the best day that I never wanted to happen - a perfectly heart-opening and heart-breaking way to honour my lovely dad. The pictures speak for themselves, but I want to extend much love and gratitude to my friend Patti Koeslag for being my celebrant support and Diana Robinson Celebrations of Life Toronto for her kindness and passionate attention to detail and for bringing my vision to life in such a beautiful way.