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Vincent Thomas Altrecha Cabrera or Tom-Tom for short is my beloved son. Born April 8, 1995 who was born with Complex Congenital Heart Disease.

This narrative is profoundly personal and centers around my courageous son, Tom Tom. Twenty years back, on April 8, 1995, our first child, a delightful baby boy, was born. Despite a normal delivery, our pediatrician detected an unusual heart murmur and recommended we consult the Philippine Heart Centre. Consumed by concern for his health, we swiftly sought their expertise, which confirmed a diagno

sis of Complex Congenital Heart Disease-Single Ventricle. This moment marked my first encounter with the profound vulnerability of parenthood. Nevertheless, Tom Tom blossomed into a kind-hearted, self-reliant, intelligent, and charming young man. Our physical distance did nothing to weaken our bond; we remained closely connected, frequently engaging in online conversations and sharing our lives. His interests were varied: he was an avid reader with a complete set of the Hunger Games series, enjoyed writing journals and poetry, playing PS3 games, and had a penchant for cake and ice cream. Recently, he even took up drawing. His journey wasn't without its challenges, particularly a period of depression triggered by a hiatus from his studies due to his health. However, he remained engaged academically through participation in an English Communication program at World City Colleges in Manila. His desire to experience life as a regular student propelled him to persuade me to support his return to university, where he embarked on a degree in Psychology as a freshman. A particularly poignant memory for me is a Mother's Day message he sent; unbeknownst to me at the time, it would be his last. In the years that followed, despite his efforts to live a life unfettered by his health issues, his frequent hospital visits became more pronounced. Tom-Tom never relinquished hope, even when family tensions arose, particularly with his father. I endeavored to ease his concerns, encouraging him not to dwell too deeply on such matters, though his anxiety was palpable. I sent motivational videos to uplift him, yet he struggled to escape the weight of his emotions. Maintaining my composure has been difficult; I've managed to put on a brave face at work and with friends. Nonetheless, each hospitalization brought a flood of worry over his condition, tempered only by hope for his recovery. I never imagined he would surrender to his struggles, having always urged him, "Do not give up for Mommy." Yet, on June 13, 2015, we said goodbye to beloved Tom Tom. https://www.facebook.com/viiinsebastian
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03/26/2025

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Tom 💙

As April 8 approaches, my heart feels the weight of missing you even more. Your birthday will always be your special day, and no matter how many years go by, I will remember and celebrate you with love.

You were meant to be here in Canada with me—starting a new chapter, side by side. But God had other plans, and I’ve been walking this journey without you, carrying your memory through every joy and struggle.

Life here has been far from easy. As the sole breadwinner for you and your brother, I’ve endured so much—deep financial struggles, unfair challenges, and moments that nearly broke me. But I keep going… because of you. Your memory gives me strength when I feel weak.

Your life, your love, and your smile still live on in my heart. I miss you every day, but especially on your birthday, the ache is deeper—but so is the love.

You will always be my son, my light, and the reason I keep pushing forward.
Until we meet again…

With all my love,
Mommy 💙🙏✨

10/25/2024

Remembering Tom My Beloved Son

It’s been ten years since my dear son passed away, but the love and memories we shared will live in my heart forever. As I reflect on our time together, I dedicate this song, "Hands to Heaven", to him. May we be reunited one day, and may God's peace continue to bring comfort through the pain.

"So raise your hands to heaven and pray that we'll be back together someday."

Bible Verse:
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." — Psalm 34:18

Forever in my heart. ⚖️ 💔🙏

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09/22/2024

🌹 Always remembering my precious son. Since you left us in 2015, not a day has passed without missing you. Everyone says you look like me, and your love, smile, and spirit continue to live on in my heart. 💖

I cherish the beautiful memories we shared, and even though you're no longer here with me, I know you're watching over me. Until we meet again, my sweet Tom, you will forever remain in my thoughts and heart. 🌟💫

Forever loved, never forgotten. ❤️

04/08/2024

Today, as the solar eclipse casts its shadow across the sun, we pause to remember a day that brought light into our lives, the day my son was born. 🌑✨ On this unique day when the heavens themselves mark a moment of reflection and wonder, we find a poignant reminder in Isaiah 40:31:

"But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint."

Just as the eclipse brings a moment of awe, so did his life brings endless joy and love to those around him. Today, his birthday aligns with this celestial event, a symbol that even in moments of darkness, there is beauty and hope to be found and strength that rises above it.

His spirit, like the light of the sun, continues to shine on us, breaking through the shadows, reminding us of the strength and hope we have through our faith and memories of him. 🕊️💖
As we celebrate his birthday today, we remember the brightness of his smile that outshone any darkness, and let our hearts be lifted, knowing he soars high, like eagles, watching over us. Happy Birthday, my beloved son. You are missed beyond words, but your light lives on forever in our hearts. 🎂🌈 Vincent Cabrera https://www.facebook.com/tomohiisa
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12/07/2023

Celebrating my 8th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

07/20/2023

A poem for my son Tom-Tom's 20 Years We love and miss you so much ♥

In Memory's Embrace

A vibrant soul, too soon taken away,
Your laughter, your smile, like the sun's warm ray.
With dreams in your eyes and a heart full of grace,
You left us behind, to a far better place.

Nineteen years, too short, yet they shone so bright,
Your presence, a beacon, in the darkest of night.
In our hearts, you'll forever reside,
A cherished memory, a love that won't subside.

Your spirit soared, touched hearts, made us whole,
A beautiful symphony, an eternal soul.
Though you've flown beyond the mortal skies,
Your essence remains, where love never dies.

We feel your presence in the gentle breeze,
And hear your laughter in the rustling trees.
Your star now twinkles, a radiant light,
Guiding us through sorrow's darkest night.

Though tears may fall, and hearts may break,
Your memory we'll cherish, for love's sake.
In the tapestry of time, you're a precious thread,
Forever woven, though you've physically fled.

Though your absence is a void we can't fill,
In the treasure trove of love, you linger still.
With each sunrise, with each passing day,
In our thoughts and hearts, you'll always stay.

Rest in peace, dear son, and know this to be true,
Our love for you, eternal and ever new.
Though apart in body, we're united by soul,
In memory's embrace, you make us whole.

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