05/05/2026
Reflection is an important part of my process. How about you?
As I settled in to work this morning, I looked at my desk and thought, "It’s no wonder my mind is all over the place; look at how many things I have open, in the middle of completion, not quite done yet, and I don’t want to put them away for fear of forgetting about them." Yes, I’m at that stage of life where the struggle of perimenopause—the forgetfulness and sometimes incoherent words—is real.
So when I looked at my desk today, I decided that before I start anything, I’m clearing a path for my body and my mind to feel safe, organized, and ready to move forward. I picked up my journal - not just any journal - THE JOURNAL. The one that has housed my thoughts, intentions, beliefs, 100 expansive questions, and so much more. I wondered, “When did this journey and journal start?” I flipped the pages back to the beginning, careful not to bend any of the edges of the pages I’ve included. This journey started in July of 2025. Here’s what happened.
I giggled at some of the ideas that grace its pages, such as “Talk Breathe Live Chocolate”. What does that even look like?
I repeated some of the mantras I had written down and had not revisited in a while. I allow, I let go, I am open, I surrender, I am in flow.
I put an orange heart over the items on my 100-expensive-questions list that I’ve accomplished.
I reflected on how some things have changed, how I’ve grown, and what I’ve accomplished.
I reflected on what still hurts and what I’m healing.
I reflected on the people in my life who see me for me - no judgment, simply pure connection, love and support.
Why was this self-reflective practice essential for me today?
It gave me a chance to breathe into my whole being. To pause and remember that I’m not doing this alone. It provided me with some insight into the goals that are still important to me. What feeds my soul, and which ones need to be let go?
Reflecting showed me my success—proof I have grown and achieved. I invite you to find your proof, too. Look back and see what you’ve accomplished and how you’ve connected. You are more than your tasks—your "ta-da" list. Recognize your magnificence.
I invite you to share your reflections and victories. Celebrate your journey and recognize your progress. Your story inspires, and you are truly magnificent. Did this elicit curiosity or wonder? I’m here if you’d like to share.