23/03/2026
I have observed so many couples, both as a couple and individually. From the conversations and connections I have had with many, many various types of people and personalities.
From Looking up to important people who have had a positive influence, ..from observing and experience, including those conversations and my own personal beliefs towards marriage I think Communication is essentially important, right up there with trust and honesty. Without honest communication relationships tend to fall apart, cause mistrust and insecurities, distance, space and seeking something new. People feel unvalued, unappreciated, unloved, unimportant. People look to feel the opposite. They want honesty, valued, appreciative, close, content where they are and who they are with, safety security, loved, etc.
Talk about what is bothering you or concerns you, be open on your feelings. Ya it isn't always easy, however a successful marriage is based on communication. Open, honest communication happens when both people can be level headed and open minded to talk. There don't need to be name calling, yelling etc.
Successful relationships have good communication. So try to communicate with people. This doesn't have to be just for marriage.
Just be honest, sit down and both listen to each other, consider what he other is feeling and work together.