SA Relationship & Intimacy Coaching and Reiki

30/07/2024

17/07/2024

In this episode we discuss the taboo side of sexuality. Check out the full episode in my Spotify playlist “Intimacy Talks.” Which you can find in the my story highlights !

06/07/2024

Welcome curious minds to the ultimate destination to explore the integral connection between Kinky Sexual Wellness and your personal development.

Dana Shergill is your host, Kinky Wellness Educator, and owner of The Partition: Home of Kinky Wellness, who’s proving why Kinky Sexual Wellness deserves a rightful spot within the wellness conversation.

From unconventional practices to thought-provoking conversations, Dana is breaking down barriers and redefining the boundaries of wellness and pleasure by uncovering the transformative impact Kinky Wellness can have on our lives.

So, let’s strip away the shame and taboo, and navigate the intersection of pleasure, self-discovery, and personal growth together, and have an open conversation about how Kinky Sexual Wellness is key to your self-development.

23/05/2024

In today’s episode, reiki healer and intimacy coach Shelby Avanns is back to give us an introduction to reiki and the transformative potential energy healing can have.
Join us now as we explore:
• The essence of a reiki session and what to anticipate
• Unravelling the significance of the 7 Chakras
• Why Reiki is accessible to everyone
• Navigating the dynamics of healer-client relationships with caution
• And a plethora of additional insights!
As a relationship and intimacy coach, Shelby is a professional guide trained in attachment theory, intimacy and sexuality practices, ta**ra, kink and reiki who helps individuals enhance their emotional, physical, and relational connections.

21/05/2024

The Dark Goddess Series of Women’s Circles are about facing and healing our shadow sides.

The shadow represents the parts of ourselves that we deem unacceptable, undesirable, or shameful. These aspects may include our fears, insecurities, suppressed emotions, unresolved traumas, negative patterns, and unacknowledged desires.

The realms of the Dark Goddesses is an area where we get to play with understanding our shadow and learning to embrace it in a beautiful way. Through this healing, individuals can experience profound personal growth, self-compassion, and inner peace as they embrace the totality of who they are, including their light and shadow aspects. By integrating and healing our shadow, we can lead more authentic, fulfilling lives and cultivate deeper connections with ourselves and others.

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In this circle we invite the energies of Goddesses of Darkness and Shadows into our circle to support us in building intimacy with our sacred rage.

Come join me for a transformative experience where we will explore the power of anger in a safe and supportive space. This event is designed for k🖤 curious women to connect with their emotions, release pent-up feelings, and build intimacy with their anger. Through guided exercises, discussions, and sharing circles, we will delve into the healing potential of this often misunderstood emotion.
Whether you struggle with expressing anger or have a complicated relationship with this emotion, this event is for you. Let’s come together to embrace our sacred anger, discuss our struggles and shame around expressing it in our relationships, learn from it, and grow stronger as individuals and as a community.

The inclusion of k🖤 in this circle is a beautiful way to bring forth the taboo emotion of anger in women. How we are told to handle anger. How we are “allowed” to express it. How we may want to play with anger in our relationships and perhaps in a k🖤 scene. How can we begin to look at anger as something sacred ?

Don’t miss out on this opportunity to connect with other women and embark on a journey of healing and empowerment.
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DM me if you want the link to the event !

11/05/2024

The topic of sexual energy is still quite taboo in our society, leading people to block or repress their sexual energy, which can have significant consequences in their whole lives. Today on The Power to Pivot Podcast, Intimacy Coach and Healer, Shelby Avann joins us to discuss the path to healing your sexual energy.

In this podcast , you’re going to learn:

💥 Shelby’s path to becoming an intimacy coach.
💥 The ways in which sexual energy can become blocked.
💥 How reiki can be used to help heal your sexual energy.

24/03/2024

Welcome to a heart-to-heart with Shelby Avann, where we peel back the layers on relationships, intimacy, and the magic of healing. Shelby isn’t just any relationship and intimacy coach. She’s a Reiki healer too, with a knack for weaving spirituality and science into a transformative blend that empowers women to deepen emotional intimacy, shake off codependency, and wave goodbye to loneliness.

In today’s chat, Shelby gets real about her own love life adventures. She’s journeyed from exploring polyamory to finding her sweet spot in what she calls a “monogamish” relationship. It’s all about discovering what truly clicks with your heart and values.

Here’s What We’re Getting Into:
• Finding Your Non-Monogamy Fit: Shelby talks about figuring out which form of non-monogamy feels right, because one size definitely doesn’t fit all.
• Jealousy: The Green Monster: How do you deal with jealousy and insecurity as you open up your relationship? Shelby’s got some solid advice.
• Trust Talks: The importance of laying down a strong foundation of trust through open talks about needs and setting clear boundaries.
• Self-Growth is Key: Shelby stresses the importance of working on yourself to find security and fulfillment in any relationship.
• Healing with Reiki: Discover how Reiki can help clear those stubborn emotional blockages that keep you stuck.
Shelby’s insights on building intimacy through being real, vulnerable, and sometimes just plain silly with your partner are gold. She also tackles how letting anxiety run the show can throw a wrench in making those deep connections. No matter where you stand on the relationship spectrum, Shelby’s wisdom is like having a heart-to-heart with a friend who’s seen it all.

21/03/2024

Secure? Anxious? Dismissive? Fearful Avoidant? Which attachment style are you?
Let’s find out, as today we are joined by relationship and intimacy coach and reiki healer Shelby Avann, who will discuss the four different attachment styles and how they relate to intimacy.
As a relationship and intimacy coach, Shelby is a professional guide trained in attachment theory, intimacy and sexuality practices, ta**ra, kink and reiki who helps individuals enhance their emotional, physical, and relational connections.

Contact Information + Professional Links
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• Website: shelbyavann.ca
• Book an intro call or sign up for coaching: https://calendly.com/shelbyavann
• Empowered Intimacy 1:1 Coaching in a 3-month container
• Intimacy Incubator Group Coaching 3-month container. Next session starts Sunday April 7, at 11 am EST