28/11/2024
We take family pictures every year. And while I always hope there will be one great photo where we’re all smiling and looking at the camera, that’s never the photo I end up loving the most.
It’s the candid shot of a hug and frown. The big belly laugh or the face smooshed kiss. The silly shot that might not make it on a Christmas card, but it captures the essence of our family perfectly (see photo #2 🤣). The fact that from a gallery of 50 shots, only a couple are close to ‘perfect’ because that’s the reality of life.
This past year has been one of the most challenging on my parenting journey, and simultaneously the most impactful. I have learned more about myself, my kids and my husband than I thought possible. We are resilient, loving, funny, spicy, persistent and emotional. It’s never perfect, but we’re always trying.
For a lot of this year I was trying so hard (against multiple forces outside my control) to create a calm environment in our home. I have learned that creating calm within me is the only thing I have (some) control over. I’ve learned that leading with curiosity and humor is the best strategy for us.
I’m sure I’ll look back on this post on a hard day in the future with tears in my eyes, but today I’m grateful for this moment in time, this family with all its feelings, the people who were positive forces in our lives this year, and this life and its lessons.
💗❤️💓
Thank you to for capturing us and bringing the fun!