Death's Apprentice

Death's Apprentice What can you learn from life’s greatest teacher?

Death's Apprentice provides advance care and transition planning, corporate education, keynotes and public speaking to help you prepare for life's challenging certainties.

02/27/2026

Why do we burn caskets? ⚰️🔥🤯

Well, first of all this is the standard in North America but not everywhere in the world.

Deathcare is different in different parts of the world 💕

In North America, bodies are placed in caskets before cremation for a number of reasons, primarily safety and ease of movement for the mortician/cremationist.

The caskets can be very simple, like cardboard boxes with supported bottoms or simple pine boxes. These are called “minimum containers” in the trade.

In some cultures it’s important to have a very well made or expensive casket. If that’s important in your culture or background, terrific! If not, choose something less fancy/basic. But no matter what, don’t judge others for their choices ❤️

We won’t take the body out of the casket before cremation for a few reasons:

1. It’s the law in many places.

2. The casket keeps the mortician and cremationist safe because they are easier to move than an uncontained human body

3. Reusing caskets is unhygienic and kind of a gross concept

4. Rental caskets DO exist but they are an outer shell…there is still a box that the person goes in which is what ends up getting cremated.

The more you know, hey? ❤️

Feel free to ask questions, I’ll do my best to reply!

02/27/2026

It’s a nice neighbourhood! ⤵️

Best bit of real estate…taking care of my final arrangements is part of living my legacy.

I bought this for myself, but actually for the people I love most in this world.

Not having to deal with the expense and decision making while grieving is truly a gift.

And look! I have great new neighbours!

02/25/2026

It’s not a hard no….

But there’s a lot of reasons it’s mostly a no, in most parts of North America.

Thank you for coming to my deadtalk!

02/23/2026

Share if you agree! 🩷

Social media often makes us think that EVERYONE else is doing it better than us, has it figured out better than we do, is more together than we are…and that our little contributions don’t matter.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

The little tiny moments in any day are the things that stitch our stories together.

Small steps, ideas timidly explored…these are all things that make the life that you lead aligned with the legacy you leave.

Don’t for a second think that you need to be more, better, brighter, shinier.

Your small step is someone else’s marathon.

Love you.

02/20/2026

Comment DOULADO to get an invitation to register (and probably meet mocha too).

Last session is tomorrow, Feb 21 at 3 pm. It would be such a pleasure to have you there!

If you’ve been feeling a call, now is the time to answer it ❤️

Yes, I’ll send out a recording too.

But if you can get there live, you’ll enjoy it more: you can get your questions answered in real time!

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02/19/2026

Check my 🔗 or stories if you want to join me.

I haven’t gone anywhere: I’m here if you need me.

Always.

But it’s been a really hard time ❤️

02/17/2026

DOULADO gets you the 🔗

No sales pitch, no pre-recorded session: a chance to talk honestly and openly about what this work looks like, and how it might fit in to YOUR life ❤️

02/13/2026

Grief lands differently in homicide.

Centre the victims, and surround the survivors with loving compassion.

The child who committed the horrific crime in Tumbler Ridge had significant mental health issues.

I suspect the cis-gendered white men who commit 97.3% of mass murders do too. Same with the almost 3% of (mostly white) women who do this. It totally tracks that the sub 1% of trans people who commit these types of crimes are dealing with profound mental instability.

Blame doesn’t help grief. Compassion, love, and kindness for the victims and the people closest to them is the only thing that does.

May we always say their names with love:
Abel Mwansa
Ezekiel Schofield
Kylie Smith
Zoey Benoit
Ticaria Lampert
Shannda Aviugana-Durand
Emmett Jacobs
Jennifer Jacobs

02/11/2026

Have you ever wondered about how someone could "become" a death doula?

Join me, so we can explore this question together! My first session in February is tomorrow (Thursday Feb 12) and there are few others to choose from.

Plus, it's recorded! So if the live sessions don't work, you can still get your questions answered.

Do you feel called to this work?Then we need to get to know each other…Would you say you’re “doula-curious”?If so, I’d love you to join me for What Does a Doula DO? This free, one-hour webinar will answer all your questions about this meaningful (and often misunderstood) work.There’s fou...

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