07/01/2024
In a sea of Tik Tok coaches and Instagram quotes warning about red flags and boundaries, we’ve overcorrected to the point where self-care has become the justification for selfishness.
We’ve become fluent in therapy speak, flippantly accusing others of gaslighting just because they disagree with us .
We are so aware of our trauma that anything that triggers us is someone else’s fault.
Dating prospects are now narcissists until proven trustworthy. We default to building walls before bridges.
Our habits of judgment have become so ingrained that our muscles of compassion have atrophied.
I don’t know how not giving a f*ck has become so trendy, but nihilism is unlikely the key to a well-lived life.
Commit to something. When you do, love it, nurture it, fight for it even when things get hard. Build your skills of resilience so you can handle the unfortunate reality that life is unfair and painful at times.
Remember, there are good people out there. You’re never too old to find love, and yes, it’s possible, even in your city.
Show up - for your friends, your family, your work.
Take pride in what you do, because half-assing things becomes habitual, and dulls your shine.
And lastly, the era of not giving a F*ck is over. I don’t mean become self-conscious about people’s opinions.
I mean TRYING YOUR BEST, making an effort, investing in what matters. 100% vs lukewarm energy. Jumping in with two feet. Make the decision. Deal with the consequences. Limbo is not an option.
That’s just my opinion, you can do whatever you want. 😜 Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
