
07/31/2025
🌿 Feeling Stuck in Indecision? You're Not Alone. 🌿
Ok. I'm not over here pretending to be some kind of life guru 🧘♀️....like.... at all! I'm just a girl on a mission to do better, even if it's just a little.
I once had a tarot reading with a very sweet little, soft spoken lovely lady. I was there to get some clarity on a few decisions I was trying to make. I was so focused on picking "the right thing" that I became frozen in fear and felt trapped. After nearly a half hour of conversation, this gentle little lady looked at me and said firmly, "IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU PICK, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD MAKE THE DAMN DECISION!" 😆 (I'm not sure, but I think the F word may have been dropped as well. 🫣😬
Indecisiveness isn’t a flaw. It’s often a sign that your inner and outer selves are asking for alignment before taking the next step. When your mind says “go,” but your heart whispers “wait,” it can feel like you're spinning your wheels.
🔍 Why does indecision happen?
1. Fear of making the wrong choice
2. Overwhelm from too many options
3. A nervous system in survival mode
4. Perfectionism and people-pleasing tendencies
5. Not trusting your inner wisdom
I'm definitely a 1, 4 & 5. Which one are you?
✨ But here’s the truth: You don’t have to have it all figured out to take one small step. Sometimes, things only start to make sense after the shift begins.
💬 “Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life. Tiptoe if you must, but take the step.” — Naeem Callaway
(Note to self): Here are some gentle ways to move through indecision:
🌸 Pause, breathe, and ask your body how each option feels
🌸 Journal your thoughts without editing them
🌸 Meditate, pray, or sit quietly with your inner voice
🌸 Choose one small step that feels light—not heavy
You don’t have to rush. You just have to listen. You are allowed to take your time and trust yourself. Don't worry - if one door closes... you can always build your own table. 🤷♀️ 🙃
💗 If you're feeling caught at a crossroads, you’re simply standing in the field of opportunity where growth begins. You are not broken—you’re blooming.
So, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, JUST MAKE THE DAMM DECISION! 😆