02/21/2026
QUESTION: Why am I having so much difficulty walking away from these obviously negative situations/people? I feel somewhat insecure at the moment.
ANSWER: You are "emotionally attached" to people/situations who are negative. They also may be teaching you a "lesson" in how not to be anymore. Perhaps you were that way earlier in your life or in a past life, but in this NOW moment you can choose to transcend these kind of negative interactions and that may require you letting go of relationships/situations/behavioral patterns that no longer serve your new focus of vibration and new intentions of what you want for your life.
The soul's ascension process is that of transformation and change....ascension requires us to observe ourselves and let go of what no longer serves us. Right down 3 things that create unhappiness in your life, and then write down 3 things that YOU are going to do to create CHANGE so you can manifest happiness in your life. People may criticize you and judge you for living the life of "your" dreams, but that is because they are stuck in their own level of unconsciousness, disempowerment, old beliefs and behavioral patterns that no longer serve them, and they want to keep you where they are. Ascending souls will be required to rise above this type of control and manipulation! We have to learn how to be true to ourselves and learn how to be discerning.
It takes courage to make changes in your life, and release what does not serve you....but you must ask your self ~ Who are am I living for? You are here to evolve YOUR soul and the greatest achievement a soul can make is to live in alignment with the heart felt yearnings of your own soul, not the egoic mind chatter and should's and could's of everyone else. What does your soul long for? Sit in silence and tune into your heart ~ how does it FEEL? Listen to the core sensations in the body and make your list of what you want, and how you are going to accomplish these things for your self.
Unhappy people are unhappy because they are living someone else's life.....they are not aligned with their own soul's original plan. This is an epidemic on planet Earth and we have gone through lifetime after lifetime giving our power away allowing others to dictate how we live. We have lost touch with our own inner being and we began looking externally of our own intuitive wisdom for guidance from others who are also NOT in alignment with their inner being. It is time to change this and re-connect with that part of ourselves that knows what is for our highest and best good, and the only way to do this is to set our intention to pray and meditate so we can reestablish a clear connection with our souls intuitive guidance system. Prayer is talking to our higher being and God/dess and meditation is sitting in silence LISTENING to the guidance that has always been available to us, but has been challenged with static interference from our busy outside world.
The definition of insanity is to keep doing the same things over and over again expecting different results. ~ Albert Einstein
Blessings