
15/09/2025
We see you, mums. 👀💛
We see you grabbing five minutes alone, but not really switching off.
We see you putting the kettle on, only to reheat the same cup of tea three times.
We see you scrolling in the dark, baby monitor in hand.
We see you “resting” while the to-do list runs on repeat in your head.
A new study in the British Journal of Psychology gave this feeling a name: “solitude that isn’t mine.”
It shows that most mothers get less than an hour a day of true me-time — and even that is interrupted, shared, or overshadowed by the mental load.
And honestly, shame we need research to tell us this. Because we’ve always seen you. 💛
This is why at Singing Mamas we create spaces where mums can have a pocket of time that really is theirs — to sing, to connect, to rest, to feel lighter.
đź“° Read the full article here: https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bjop.70019
Then come sing with us.. 🧡