03/12/2023
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ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: [Crying] this ma pikin dey with belle oh!(pregnant)âŠ.
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Calm down madam, weti happen??
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: About 2 months ago, them r**e this ma pikin. Then last week, a notice say e di so so weak weak then di over sleep. I want ask weda e don see e me**es , e say NO! .
ð€ŠðŸââïžNa for dey weh a start investigate sotey we run go for some small meresin store for corner house, them do the test, e comot positive.
ð€ŠðŸââïžDoctor I no go fit this kind shame ooo! I go put my head and face for wuside.
ð€ŠðŸââïž How I go take handle this kind shameful situation ?. I go go for wuside hide this shame!!. Doctor abeg help me !!
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Madam Abeg try for calm down!!! Time weh them r**e this your pikin, wuna be come hospital immediately????
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: NO doctor.
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Why na mami?. Wuna for come hospital immediately. By the way, you know the person weh e r**e your pikin?? Because the way you cry he dey like you know!
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: Hmmmmm doctor, na shame ooo doctor. This matter so nobi fine one. Nobi thing for di talkam outside.!
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Weti you mean??
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: The person weh do this thing na family person. Na why that you see me I di cry plenty so.
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Madam, who be the person?? E no change anything say the person na CRIMINAL because ð¥ðð£ð na ððð ðð¥ðð ðð¡ðð ððð§.
ðYou di only cry about shame and side weh you go put your head for shame. You don think about weti this pikin fit di go through?
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: Hmmmmmm WEHH!! Papagot!
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Weti be your pikin e age?
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: 14 years doctor
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Your 1st priority na this your pikin not how for hide the person weh do the act.
ðJust this particular thing so fit destroy this pikin e life forever!!!!
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: Doctor na why that I come, so that them fit move the belle because I know say the belle go di only remind the pikin for the situation.
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Madam, you sure say this decision na for the best interest for this your pikin or na for hide the person weh do the act? You know say this pikin fit develop complication during the abortion process weh e fit bleed sotey die or even for future e no fit fit for born again? You think all this things before you come down with this decision so? By the way? Who be that criminal?
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: Doctor, abeg make we no go for that side abeg you.
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: No madam, we don already enter the topic. We must discuss all thing. If not, we no go continue anything.
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: Hmmmmmm. Na he papa?
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: E true born papa?? Na your real pikin too this??
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: Yes doctor, na my first pikin. No, na man weh a marret he. A marret he weh this pikin nova even reach 1 year so, e grow know na this man as e papa.
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Oh, I see. So you di protect your criminal husband over your pikin. Madam, this na week for fight against Gender Base Violence and na cases like this ones weh we di try for fight against for our society.
ðïžYou need for unite with all other authorities weh di put power for end this bad thing against women rather than for di hide your massa. You massa na criminal and need for be arrested.
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: DoctorâŠ
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Madam wait first. A di first over vex with you say you no bring this pikin for hospital immediately. This pikin need medical and psychological attention.
ð The more you di hide your massa, you di instead punish the victim ( this pikin) then protect the perpetrator(your massa) weh e no get for dey so.
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: So if a for come hospital early, e no for get belle?
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Possible. Normally, when them r**e you, you must make sure you report for hospital immediately within 24 hours because tests them dey weh we get for doam and thing them dey weh we go do for prevent situations like this within 24 hours. You di fear only belle, what if this pikin don carry some chronic infection like HIV, Hepatitis B , GONORRHEA, SYPHILIS OR CHLAMYDIA ?
YOU know your massa e HIV status???
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: I no sure doctor.
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: You see nor madam. Within 72hours after them r**e person, e need for do 3 things them.
ð) ð£ð¿ð¶ðŒð¿ð¶ðð¶ð²ð ðð®ð³ð²ðð ð³ð¶ð¿ðð:
ð§ðµð² ðð¶ð°ðð¶ðº ðºððð ð¿ðð» ð®ðð®ð ð³ð¿ðŒðº ððµð² ðœð²ð¿ðœð²ðð¿ð®ððŒð¿ ðŒð¿ ð²ðð²ð» ððµð² ðœð¹ð®ð°ð²ð ððµð²ð¿ð² ð² ð±ð²ð ðœðŒððð¶ð¯ð¹ð² ð³ðŒð¿ ðð²ð² ððµð² ðœð²ð¿ðœð²ðð¿ð®ððŒð¿. ð§ðµð²ð» ð»ð²ð
ð ððµð¶ð»ðŽ ð»ð® ð³ðŒð¿ ðð²ð²ðž ðºð²ð±ð¶ð°ð®ð¹ ðððœðœðŒð¿ð ð¶ðºðºð²ð±ð¶ð®ðð²ð¹ð. ðªðµð²ð» ððµð² ðœð²ð¿ððŒð» ð°ðŒðºð² ðµðŒððœð¶ðð®ð¹, ððµð²ðº ð°ðµð²ð°ðž ðºð®ðžð² ð² ðð²ðð ððµð²ðº ð³ðŒð¿ ð¶ð»ð³ð²ð°ðð¶ðŒð» ðð²ðµ ððµð²ðº ð³ð¶ð ðð¿ð®ð»ðð³ð²ð¿ð®ðº ððµð¿ðŒððŽðµ ðð²ð
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ð®) ðð®ððµð²ð¿ ððð¶ð±ð²ð»ð°ð²:
ð§ðµð²ðº ðŽðŒ ððð®ð¿ð ð¶ð»ðð²ððð¶ðŽð®ðð¶ðŒð» ððŒ ððµð®ð ððµð²ðº ð³ð¶ð ðŽð®ððµð²ð¿ ð²ðð¶ð±ð²ð»ð°ð² ð³ðŒð¿ ð¯ð¿ð¶ð»ðŽ ð·ðððð¶ð°ð² ððŒ ððµð² ðð¶ð°ðð¶ðº. ðŠðŒ ð² ð±ð²ð ðð²ð¿ð ð¶ðºðœðŒð¿ðð®ð»ð ðð®ð ð¶ðºðºð²ð±ð¶ð®ðð²ð¹ð ð®ð³ðð²ð¿ ð¿ð®ðœð², ðºð®ðžð² ððµð² ðð¶ð°ðð¶ðº ð»ðŒ ðð®ððµ, ð°ðµð®ð»ðŽð² ð°ð¹ðŒððµð²ð ðŒð¿ ð²ðð²ð» ðœð¶ðð. ð ð®ðžð² ððµð² ðœð²ð¿ððŒð» ð¿ð²ðœðŒð¿ð ð² ðð²ð¹ð³ ð·ððð ððµð² ðð®ð ð² ð¯ð² ð±ð²ð ð®ð³ðð²ð¿ ððµð² ð®ð°ð ð¯ð²ð°ð®ððð² ð®ð¹ð¹ ðð¶ð»ðŽ ðð²ðµ ððµð²ðº ðŽðŒ ðð²ð²ðð®ðº ð³ðŒð¿ ððµð² ðœð²ð¿ððŒð» ð² ð¯ðŒð±ð ðŽðŒ ð¯ð² ððð² ð®ð ð²ðð¶ð±ð²ð»ð°ð².
ð¯) ðŠððœðœðŒð¿ð :
ð¥ð®ðœð² ðð¶ð°ðð¶ðº ððµð²ðº ð»ð²ð²ð± ðœð¹ð²ð»ðð ðœððð°ðµðŒð¹ðŒðŽð¶ð°ð®ð¹ ðððœðœðŒð¿ð ððŒ ððµð®ð ððµð²ðº ð³ð¶ð ðµð²ð®ð¹ ð³ð¿ðŒðº ððµð² ðð¿ð®ððºð® ðœð¿ðŒðœð²ð¿ð¹ð ð¯ð²ð°ð®ððð² ð¶ð³ ððµð²ðº ð»ðŒ ðµð®ð»ð±ð¹ð² ððµð¶ð ð®ððœð²ð°ð ðð²ð¿ð¶ðŒððð¹ð, ððµð² ðð¶ð°ðð¶ðº ð³ð¶ð ð²ð»ð± ððœ ðžð¶ð¹ð¹ ðµð²ð¿ðð²ð¹ð³ ð¯ð²ð°ð®ððð² ðœð²ðŒðœð¹ð² ð±ð¶ ð¿ð²ð®ð°ð ð±ð¶ð³ð³ð²ð¿ð²ð»ðð¹ð ð³ð¿ðŒðº ðð¿ð®ððºð®.
ð°)ðð¥ðð ðð²ðŽð®ð¹ ðð²ð¹ðœ :
ð¶ð³ ððŒð ð»ðŒð¿ ðŽð²ð ðºðŒð»ð²ð ð³ðŒð¿ ð³ð¶ð»ð± ð¹ð®ððð²ð¿ ððŒðºð² ð»ððºð¯ð²ð¿ð ððµð²ðº ð±ð²ð ðð®ð ððŒð ð³ð¶ð ð°ð®ð¹ð¹ ðð®ð ðµð² ðŽðŒ ðµð²ð¹ðœ ð³ðŒð¿ ð²ð
ð®ðºðœð¹ð²ð ð¹ð¶ðžð² :
ðððð(ððð ðð) :ð²ð³ð³ð²ðŽð®ððµð, ð²ð³ð³ð³ð¯ð¯ð³ðŽð¯
ððšð ðð¡ ð¥ðððð§(ððšðð) ð²ðµð³ð¯ðŽð±ðµð¯ð®
ðððððŠ(ð§ððð¢): ð²ð³ð®ðµðµð°ð±ð±ðŽ
ððð ðððð£(ððð ðð): ð²ð³ðµð²ððð®ðŽðŽ
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: Thank you oo! Coz my massa na first big man and I nor first even know how for start say I want drag he for court.
ðšðŸââïžðððŒððŒ ð¿ððŸððð: Now so madam, i go take you, we go for our Gender Base Violence Unit so that we fit see how to start handle this situation.
ð€ŠðŸââïžð¢ðŽð® ð ð¿ð. ðŠð ðð¥ð§: Okay Doctor, thank you
Writer : DOCTOR Tete Yvonne
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