31/12/2025
As the new year approaches, this is what I’m working on.
THE NEW WEALTH
To have a clear mind
To create freely
Home is anywhere
Aliveness
Flow
Deep authentic connections with friends
Capacity
Comfortable with shadow work
Healthy communication
Permission to self
Live in wonder
A pure reoccurring gratitude
Presence
Groundedness
A regulated nervous system
Great s*x, often
Ability to repair ruptures
Soul work
Experiences > Things
Closing the gap between work and play
To have a clear mind
Because peace is the ultimate luxury. When your thoughts stop racing, life can finally be lived.
To create freely
Not for approval. Not for algorithms. Creating because something inside you wants to express itself. It wants out and you feel complete. It is true freedom.
Home is anywhere
When safety lives in you, not a zip code. You can create home anywhere you go.
Aliveness
That pulse in your chest that says I’m here, not just existing, not just surviving. A thirst for life, the kind we felt before life happened.
Flow
When effort softens and time disappears. Riding the edge, between fear and fun. When time disappears.
Deep authentic connections with friends
Not crowds. Not networking. The few people who are chosen family. Deeper is baseline.
Capacity
The ability to hold more joy, more grief, more truth without collapsing or numbing. Awareness of self and how your thoughts and actions impact others.
Comfortable with shadow work
Knowing your darkness doesn’t make you dangerous, it makes you honest.
Healthy communication
Saying what you mean without punishment or performance. Listening without defense.
Permission to self
To rest. To want. To give yourself love and pleasure and discipline. To change your mind. To live without asking first.
Live in wonder
Not just curiosity. Wonder contains magic. Allowing awe to dissolve your armor.
A pure reoccurring gratitude
Not forced positivity. The quiet recognition that this moment did not have to happen. It is a gift. Always.
Presence
Being where your feet are. Giving your attention like it matters, because it’s foundational. Not when you feel inspired or have time.
Groundedness
Roots that give you a stance. Let you bend without breaking. Stability without rigidity.
A regulated nervous system
Because no amount of success matters if your body feels like it’s under attack. There is no other way to get to a higher frequency without regulating nervous. This regulation always flips the magnet and stunts growth.
Great s*x, often
Not just skin hunger, connection. Not just release, intimacy. A body that feels safe enough to open. Allowing yourself to be a s*xual being.
Ability to repair ruptures
Because nothing real is unbroken. Wealth is knowing how to come back together.
Soul work
The inner labor no one applauds but everyone feels.
Experiences > Things
Memories don’t depreciate. They deepen.
Closing the gap between work and play
When what you do and who you are stop being strangers.
This is the new wealth.
Quiet. Earned. Embodied.
And once you have it, everything else becomes optional.
