Compassionate Counselling Clinic

07/08/2025

Falling in love is easy.
Just mix one unresolved childhood wound with another and boom — fireworks! 💥❤️

But staying in a healthy, secure relationship?
Now that’s an emotional PhD. 🎓🧠

🌱 A truly fulfilling relationship doesn't just “happen.”
It grows — when nurtured with the right emotional nutrients.

A truly fulfilling relationship doesn't just "happen."
It grows - when nurtured with the right emotional nutrients.

Because love without emotional safety becomes fear.
Without respect, it becomes control.
Without trust, it becomes suspicion.
Without vulnerability, it becomes performance.
Without a shared vision, it becomes confusion.
Without growth, it becomes stagnation.

🌀 A secure, healthy relationship is a space where two people can be fully human — flawed, changing, honest - and still held with care.

And when conflict arises (because it always will)...
It’s not the lack of problems that makes a relationship strong,
It’s how we repair, how we listen, how we grow,
And how we stay curious about each other, even after years.

🔍 Ask yourself today:
Am I planting seeds of safety, growth, and curiosity in my relationship?
Or am I just hoping love alone will be enough?

💛 Healing begins with awareness. And growth begins with choice. Your choice...So Healing is possible. Connection is teachable.
Let us show you how to plant love that doesn’t hurt,
how to water trust when it's gone dry,
how to speak when silence has built walls,
and how to stay - not because you’re afraid to leave,
but because it’s safe to be exactly who you are.

You don’t just deserve love.
You deserve love that heals.

✨ With compassion,
Compassionate Counseling Clinic
🔗 the-ccc.ca

06/08/2025

https://the-ccc.ca

05/08/2025

Healing Isn’t What You Think It Is.
It’s not about "getting over it."
It’s not about pretending it didn’t happen.
It’s not about smiling through the pain.
Real healing is messy. Slow. Brave. Rewarding.
It’s sitting with the truth - not running from it.
It’s learning to feel again after going numb.
It’s unlearning survival patterns you thought were your personality!!!
And let’s be honest:
Some people are emotional predators.
They feed off control, drama, pain - even your silence.
They’re addicted to chaos, blame, and hurting others.
Healing means protecting yourself from that.
Not everyone deserves access to your inner world.
🧠 It’s changing the story you tell yourself about what happened -
and who you are because of it.
That’s where psychotherapy helps.
Not because therapists “fix” you.
But because someone sits with you, listens without judgment,
and helps you rebuild the parts of yourself you had to abandon just to survive.
“Therapy isn’t about being broken - it’s about being ready to grow.”
It’s for the brave. The curious.
The ones who say:
"I want more than survival. I want to live fully — as me."
Healing isn’t a straight line - it’s a revolution of self-respect!
🧡 You’re not weak for needing support.
You’re wise for choosing it.
https://the-ccc.ca

19/07/2025

🎭 TRUE SELF vs. PSEUDO SELF
Are you truly living from who you are — or from who you think you should be?

Within each of us, there are two aspects:
✨ True Self – the authentic part of us: honest, spontaneous, vulnerable, and connected to inner truth.
🎭 Pseudo Self – a learned response to expectations, roles, and fear of rejection. It may appear smart and composed, but it carries inner tension and a subtle sense of emptiness.

The biggest difference?
Relationships.

👂 Communication from the True Self sounds like:
"I care,"
"I'm afraid,"
"I don’t fully understand, but I want to be here with you."

🎭 Communication from the Pseudo Self wears a mask:
Attack. Withdrawal. Passive aggression. Manipulation. Pretending to be fine.

In therapy — and in everyday life — this question changes everything:
👉 From which part of yourself do you live, love, and speak?

True Self connects.
Pseudo Self survives.

So I ask you, the one reading this now:
🔍 Are you living more from your True Self — or from a mask you’ve learned to wear?

Join us: August 1 & 2, 2025
🌐 the-ccc.ca

17/07/2025

You want love - but you push it away.
You want peace - but you pick the fight.
You want change - but you ghost your own healing.
You want safety - but you create distance.
You want to be seen - but you refuse to be vulnerable.
You want to be held - but you act like you don’t care.
You want support - but you push everyone away.
You want trust - but you test everyone until they break.
You want new love - but you still blame the old one.
You want peace - but chaos feels like home.

That’s sabotage.

Not the dramatic kind with explosions.
The quiet kind… with overthinking, disappearing, blaming, and fear.

We sabotage relationships when they feel too real.
We sabotage success when it feels too close.
We sabotage joy when we've been trained for survival.

Sometimes it’s not fate, not bad luck, not the other person.
It’s you - not trusting the good,
because the good feels unfamiliar.
Unsafe.

💔 You were programmed to expect pain.
So when love or clarity comes — you run.

Not because you’re broken.
But because you’re protecting an old wound.

🎧 Beastie Boys screamed it.
But therapy whispers it:
"Let’s talk about why you keep blowing up your own life."

🖤 Shadow work doesn’t judge.
It listens.
It reveals.
And then it helps you choose differently.

-Join us for:
Shadow Integration – The Path of Love
📅 August 1 & 2, 2025 | 7 PM Online
🎤 With Milan Wells & Guests
🔗 https://the-ccc.ca

Let’s stop sabotaging what we secretly pray for.

18/06/2025

17/06/2025

Trening za GLAVU i SRCE
Za tinejdžere 14+ i sve koji se ponekad osećaju kao da im je 14 😄
Mindfulness, NLP, CBT = Recept za samopouzdanje i stabilnost
📅 27 Jun
⏰ od 16 do 19h
📍 Online preko Zoom-a
💸 Promo cena – 70% niža!
📞 Prijave: +381 64 1203060
👥 Organizator: Compassionate Counselling Clinic

🌱 Za koga je ovo?
Za tebe ako:
✔ Ponekad previše razmišljaš (i to najčešće noću).
✔ Znaš šta hoćeš, ali su ti se noge zaledile.
✔ Nervira te svet, ali i tvoj unutrašnji kritičar.
✔ Imaš osećaj da se "ne uklapaš"... i pitaš se da li je to loše.
✔ Želiš više samopouzdanja, ali ne znaš da li to ide uz tebe.

🤸‍♂️ Šta ćemo raditi?
🔹 Praktične mindfulness vežbe – za nervozne misli i prezasićen mozak
🔹 NLP trikove – kako da komuniciraš bolje i kažeš ono što stvarno misliš
🔹 CBT metode – kako da uhvatiš svoje loše misli pre nego što te sabotiraju
🔹 Učimo kako da ne budemo robovi mišljenja, ocena, očekivanja i Socialnih mreža

😎 Obećanje radionice:
Nećeš postati savršen.
Ali ćeš znati da nisi pokvaren.
I da je ok biti čovek (čak i kad si tinejdžer... ili mladji tinejdžer od 60 godina).

Misao za kraj:🧘‍♀️ Ova radionica nije lek za sve.
Ali jeste početak boljeg odnosa sa sobom.
Bez drame. Bez pritiska. Sa više razumevanja i manje “šta nije u redu sa mnom?”

https://the-ccc.ca/sr-rs

07/06/2025

This June, your healing comes first.
Specially for Men in Canada & the U.S. get 100% OFF therapy in June or by donation July and August at Compassionate Counseling Clinic.

If you need help but can't afford it — this is for you.

📩 Message me.
https://the-ccc.ca

— Milan Wells https://the-ccc.ca
Psychotherapist & fellow human with Personal motto: Everything has a solution!

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