15/05/2026
🍌🍞“What would Angela do?”
I laughed when I heard this at karate yesterday, but it highlights an important psychological construct:
Self-Efficacy.
If you have ever wondered why some people seem to navigate health challenges with ease while others feel stuck, the answer is often found here.
Self-efficacy is the belief in your ability to perform the actions required to reach a goal. It is your “situation-specific” confidence. High self-efficacy means you do not just “want” to be healthy; you believe you have the actual tools to handle a busy work week or a social dinner without “starting over on Monday.”
According to Albert Bandura’s Self-Efficacy Theory, there are four ways we build this belief. If 1:1 coaching is not accessible right now, focusing on these “pillars” is the best thing you can do for your journey:
✨ Mastery Experiences (“I have done it”):
This is the most powerful source. It is about finding and creating personal experiences of success. Every time you navigate a “food emergency” or finish a workout when you are tired, reflect on how you made it possible. Through this, you are building a track record of success.
✨ Vicarious Experience (“I have seen it”):
This is where the “What would ____ do?” comes in. By observing a role model, you “borrow” their strategies. If they can find flexibility in a messy life, you realize that you can too.
✨ Verbal Persuasion (“I have been told”):
This is the encouragement from a trusted coach or mentor. Having a rational and encouraging voice in your ear that tells you that you are capable helps boost your confidence.
✨ Physiological & Emotional States (“I feel it”):
How you interpret your body’s signals matters. Viewing nerves as excitement increases efficacy, while viewing them as fear lowers it. Learning to interpret these signals effectively helps you stay in the driver’s seat.
Self-efficacy is something you can build through these pillars. If your current “wellness” circle makes you feel guilty or incapable, it is time to find a new role model.
Who is the rational and encouraging voice you turn to when things do not go as planned?