22/02/2026
We keep waiting for life to calm down,
for people to change, for the next chapter to finally feel lighter and we call that hope.
But happiness doesn’t usually arrive as a result. It arrives as a decision. Not a loud, Instagram kind of decision. A subtle one. The kind you make on an ordinary day when nothing is particularly going your way.
Joy isn’t something you earn after life works out. Joy is the inner posture that allows life to work out. Not because circumstances magically change, but because you do.
Here’s what I’m sitting with: What am I postponing my joy for? If nothing changes externally this week, where can I still choose light? What would it look like to be happy without permission?
This doesn’t deny pain. It doesn’t minimize struggle. It simply reminds us that the soul is allowed to breathe
even while the story is unfinished.
Happiness isn’t pretending everything is good. It’s choosing to be alive while it isn’t. And sometimes, that choice alone changes everything.