Multicultural Mentor

24/10/2023

I don’t always love my body, but I love that it’s given me you. ❤️

I don’t always love getting up during the night, but I love being your answer right now. ❤️

I don’t always love what the tired can turn me into, but I love who I have become because of you. ❤️

I don’t always love the finger smudges on the windows, but I love the permanent mark you’ve left on my heart. ❤️

I don’t always love how lost I feel, but I love who you are helping me find. ❤️

I don’t always love coming last, but I love being first in your eyes. ❤️

I don’t always love worrying about you but I love that I care so deeply. ❤️

I don’t always love turning up late, but I love that it’s because I’m early for you. ❤️

I don’t always love the mess, but I love that it is your happiness. ❤️

I don’t always love being touched out, but I love nothing more than being your home. ❤️

I don’t always love missing out on things, but I love being there for you. ❤️

I don’t always love stopping what I’m doing, but I love that my time is yours. ❤️

❤️❤️I don’t always love every single moment in motherhood, but I will always, always, love you. ❤️❤️

📔 Words taken from book on early motherhood - Mother On

25/09/2023

12/06/2023

VOKSNE MÅ GERNE KEDE SIG.
Det skal vi faktisk helst 🙏🏾

Vi lever i et samfund, der roser fart, fremadstræben, udvikling og opadstigning. Mange af os glemmer derfor vores pauser. Kvalitetspauserne uden skærme, uden andre mennesker og uden andre former for stimuli.

Det resulterer i, at vores krop, hjerne og nervesystem er på overarbejde - alt for ofte i for lang tid ad gangen. Og det har negative konsekvenser for vores mentale (og også for vores fysiske) sundhed. 💯

Derfor bør vi voksne praktisere det, mange af os prædiker til børn: Det er sundt at kede sig.

Så ked dig lidt mere, okay? 😊

29/05/2023

✴️ Nærvær ✴️

🤍 Jeg er parat til at lære dig at kende som aldrig før
🤍 Som en gnist af lys i mit hjerte
🤍 Jeg giver dig lov til at vise mig vejen
🤍 Tak for at invitere mig ind i universet
🤍 Tak for at invitere mig ind i sjælens dybde
🙏🏾 Tak
🙏🏾 Tak
🙏🏾 Tak

31/01/2023

30/12/2022

Examples of each in a marriage:

TRIGGERS:
• yelling reminds them of a hostile environment growing up
• seeing their partner talk someone attractive reminds them of being cheated on

BELIEFS:
• “if they really cared, they’d know this matters to me.”
• “the man should always initiate intimacy.”

WOUNDS:
• rejection: when I opened up, I was rejected so I won’t do that again
• father was emotionally abusive: latent anger that comes out in cycles

INSECURITIES:
• hates their body and constantly compares to others
• when conflict arises, a complete inability to pause until it’s resolved because of worrying they won’t be loved anymore

I could provide more examples, but the point is coming across, right? 🤔

We don’t just marry our partners strengths.

We can’t reject each other because of the healing and growth that we all must do. 💯

BUT here’s the key requirement: being willing. 💯

Willing to acknowledge those parts of ourselves that need to be addressed. 💯

Not because you’re flawed, but because we ALL have things to work on!!!!! 💯
Whether it’s a trigger, a wound, a limiting belief, an insecurity — they are going to show up and be magnified in a romantic relationship.

So I invite you to both lean INTO both growing as individuals and as a couple.
This can be through personal development books, workshops, coaches, healing retreats, and more.

I see couples thrive and overcome challenges when they VALUE personal growth and healing. It doesn’t mean it’s always fun but it’s NECESSARY, otherwise you’ll constantly relive the same experiences with each other.

I hope this post is providing helpful perspective. 🙏🏾

29/12/2022

✴️ SOUNDBATH FOR MOM & BABY ✴️

Sound baths are designed to help you (mother) and your baby relax and rejuvenate by listening to calming sounds such as gongs, singing bowls, wind chimes and more.

These instruments have an ability to heal and induce a relaxed sleep-like state. Relax with your baby and allow the sounds to wash or bathe over you.

✡️ MORE DETAILS ✡️

Place: Salig, Østerbro
Instructor: Aiste Venskune. Owner of vita de lux. https://www.vitadelux.com
Price: mom + baby = 190kr
Date: Thursday 5th of Jan 2023
Time: 10:00
Mobilpay: 255538 (type mombaby)

PLEASE REGISTER THROUGH MOBILPAY BEFORE ALL THE SPOTS ARE TAKEN. 😍🤗

Happy New Year 🥳