29/08/2022
This time last year when I was studying at Le Cordon Bleu London my routine mainly consisted of washing, ironing and cooking (of course!). I never used to value ironing before, but I enjoyed the routine and had a sense of pride when wearing my freshly pressed chef whites.
Anyway, fast-forward a year, after a summer of sun and lots of (welcomed) distractions - travelling, kittens, and hosting friends and family - I'm finding myself again without structure, habits and routine.
I have never really been one for routines but over the years, I've started to notice the difference between when I have one and when I don't. Not having a routine makes me feel unsettled, bored and looking for distractions. Whereas habits like reading for 30 mins a day, meditating for 15 mins, working out in the morning and even cook-off Sundays help me feel more grounded and often give me space and permission to do all the many other things I want to do.
I've also noticed that when I am out of my routine, I want to get back into one so badly that I mentally create all these rules and habits that I need to stick to, which leaves me feeling overwhelmed and unable to stick to any of them.
As a Health Coach, I tell my clients to break things down into micro goals that are easier to achieve - and to focus on one thing at a time. Starting somewhere (anywhere) is better than not starting at all, and these micro-changes lead to more positive behaviour patterns.
The procrastinating perfectionist in me realised that I need to listen to my own advice. So, this week I will be focusing on spending at least 30 mins in the gym 3 times this week. That seems achievable to me.
If this is something that resonates with you, feel free to share what struggles you've had, and what you've done to overcome them.