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Kui  sind kõnetab sügavamalt konstellatsiooni coaching ja süsteemne  lähenemine meeskondadele ja organisatsioonidele, si...
28/02/2024

Kui sind kõnetab sügavamalt konstellatsiooni coaching ja süsteemne lähenemine meeskondadele ja organisatsioonidele, siis on veel mõned vabad kohad koolitusele "Süsteemne coaching ja konstellatsioonid" 29-30. märtsil Tallinnas. Koolituselt saad mitmed tööriistad kohe kasutamiseks nii individuaaltöös kui meeskonna coachingus. Info ja registreerumine: https://coachingconstellations.com/estonia-fpi-march-2024/

17/02/2024

Help!

Most coaches would like to help their clients. It's natural. However, when 'helping' is coming from an unmet need in ourselves it can become addictive and exhausting - for both the client and coach. When this happens, we know we've got too close and are caught up in something hidden.

Often the source of our need to help is buried under layers of unconscious patterns and deep loyalties. Perhaps we didn't feel seen, or met in our feelings as a child, or learnt that others' needs took priority over ours and so set aside our own, not wanting to be a burden. Perhaps we had a parent who overtly or in more subtle ways asked us to help, protect or resource them. Perhaps we were a caretaker of a parent or sibling.

In all these examples we became 'a helper' far too young and were inadvertently recruited into the wrong relative place in our family system.

It was actually us that needed the help; but we had no choice and we did it, of course, for love.

So, we became a 'coach' very young and then grew up giving to others what we unconsciously yearned to receive ourselves. Giving into one relational field in the unconscious hope of receiving from the other.

Whatever the truth of your childhood entanglement with helping, it's always worth exploring - so that you can ease off being so 'helpful' and start being useful. This requires real inner work, so that fresh insights into our deeper patterns combine to create a subtle shift in our stance, our inner posture, as a coach. This invites a stepping back, a move to a different inner place; from where we can see the whole system and then let go of our inner child's fantasy that we can change, rescue or fix everything. Or everyone.

This is both a much more respectful place to coach from and takes much less effort. We are free from need and simply present. We then notice the same emerging in all our clients.

So, if you want to be helpful, be useful - then your clients can truly help themselves to all you have to offer.

And both of you are free - to walk in an open field of information and insight.

Kohtusime eile süsteemse coachingu ja konstellatsioonide huvilistega Avangu imelises keskkonnas. Aitäh kõigile, kellega ...
16/02/2024

Kohtusime eile süsteemse coachingu ja konstellatsioonide huvilistega Avangu imelises keskkonnas. Aitäh kõigile, kellega koos lõime inspireeriva õpiruumi. Aitäh Avangu pererahvale sooja vastuvõtu eest!😊

25/01/2024

Tööstressi ja läbipõlemise all kannatab enda hinnangul kuni kolmveerand töötavatest inimestest ning arvatakse, et lähiajal saab sellest peamine töölt eemalejäämise ajend ja töövõimetuse põhjustaja. Mida see kõik aga endast kujutab?

21/11/2023

Palju õnne superviisoritele ja coachidele!

What a wonderful chance to learn from a master. Thanks, Barbara, to give us this beautiful chance!
17/11/2023

What a wonderful chance to learn from a master. Thanks, Barbara, to give us this beautiful chance!

“If we want to work deeply with other people we need to access the depths in ourselves.” Hunter Beaumont With huge grati...
05/11/2023

“If we want to work deeply with other people we need to access the depths in ourselves.” Hunter Beaumont
With huge gratitude in my heart, I am happy to announce that first time Sigrid and I facilitated Fundamentals Part II “the Intelligence of the Field” in Estonian.
Together with the wonderful group we explored the rules of belonging in systems and how those rules are in turn influenced by the larger systemic organizing forces. We focused to the unwritten rules in teams and deepened our understanding of the stance, principles, and practice of systemic coaching.

What do you do on your days off? Do you also need to do something on your free days...?!
26/10/2023

What do you do on your days off?
Do you also need to do something on your free days...?!

"Senisest tunduvalt rohkem võiks kasutada kaht tööpraktikat: pikemate plaanide ja vastastikuste ootuste selgeksrääkimist...
08/10/2023

"Senisest tunduvalt rohkem võiks kasutada kaht tööpraktikat: pikemate plaanide ja vastastikuste ootuste selgeksrääkimist ning igaühe pädevustele, kohustustele ja tahtele tuginevas vastutuses kokkuleppimist." Meeskonna supervisioon ja coaching on sellisteks juttudeks meeskonnas vägagi sobivad foorumid.

Eesti töökultuuris on ületähtsustatud tulemuste tagaajamine, ilma et nende tähenduse ja sisu osas oleks kokkulepe leitud, sõnab tööpsühholoog ja superviisor Taimi Elenurm. Töösuhete korraldamisel kipub tahaplaanile jääma elukvaliteedi hoidmine, kuid just see on üks jätkusuutliku töö...

"Out beyond right and wrong there is a field. I´ll meet you there." RumiWe met for two days on the field of Fundamentals...
16/09/2023

"Out beyond right and wrong there is a field. I´ll meet you there." Rumi
We met for two days on the field of Fundamentals I, developed by John Whittington and his colleagues in Coaching Constellations. It was beautiful, warm and deep meeting. Thank you, John. Thank you, dear participants. See you on the next fields.💜

This has been an amazing path which started 2017 with meeting John Whittington and having honor to witness and learn fro...
04/07/2023

This has been an amazing path which started 2017 with meeting John Whittington and having honor to witness and learn from his mastery in systemic constellation coaching. This path has taken me further to Systemic Constellations Practitioner training (https://www.facebook.com/CoachingConstellations) together with 9 wonderful human beings guided by great facilitators Michael Cahill and Becky Hall. In the first module we were strongly supported by gorgeous West Lexham nature and atmosphere. I`m containing deep gratitude to everyone I have met on this continuing path. The next milestone will be Fundamentals I training September 14-15 in Estonia, facilitated by Sigrid Melts and myself.

Toetav ja analüüsiv lugu.
12/06/2023

Toetav ja analüüsiv lugu.

Kes ei ole seda artiklit veel lugenud, palun lugegu: “Pooled Pääsküla kooli üheksandikud kukkusid eksamil läbi. Lapsevanemad süüdistavad kooli, kool lapsi”. Kirjutan, sest ei suuda mitt…

15/05/2023

🥰 Kaunist emadepäeva kõikidele raamatusõpradele! 🥰

Kutsume superviisoreid, coache, mentoreid ja coachiva meelelaadiga juhte töötuppa "Psühholoogiline turvalisus meeskonnas...
18/04/2023

Kutsume superviisoreid, coache, mentoreid ja coachiva meelelaadiga juhte töötuppa "Psühholoogiline turvalisus meeskonnas". Töötoa viib läbi coach ja organisatsioonikonsultant Dr Jean-Paul Munsch Šveitsist.
Loe rohkem:

In this workshop we will explore the aspects of Psychological Safety

Inspired by the conference "Supervision 2023: THE WALL IS AHEAD". If the biggest walls are standing inside the person, w...
12/03/2023

Inspired by the conference "Supervision 2023: THE WALL IS AHEAD". If the biggest walls are standing inside the person, which was shared with us by Robin Shohet, one of the pioneers of supervision and the author of several books on the subject, how to treat these walls gently and with love so that breaking them does not leave painful traces or large piles of stones? Conference speakers offered several solutions, Katrin Aava pointed out the importance of community support, Arita Featherstone, a dear colleague and friend, spoke about the importance of honesty in the organization. Sijtze de Roos, President of ANSE (2014-2018), talks about the need to create transitional space in his keynote presentation " Online all day – Implications for supervisors and coaches". He says: “It is important to realize that our consulting rooms should embody the symbolic quality of a transitional space, in which people feel free to learn, to reflect on their views and ways, to stick their necks out and to go through possibly painful changes. Transitional spaces are like temples, churches, other places of worship or reflection."
For the modern person, these spaces are often the workspaces of mental health professionals. As supervisors, we can invite people to these transitional spaces.
I gratefully treasure the inspiring moments of the conference. Thank you!

10/03/2023

Kallid sõbrad! Meil on hea meel jagada teiega meie uut täiendõpete süsteemi Q by ISCI, mis on loodud meie õppejõudude poolt, et toetada Sinu professionaalset arengut!
✔️Mis on Q? Q juured ulatuvad iidsete Egiptuse hieroglüüfide aega. Q tähe sümbol põhineb nõelasilmal, sõlmel või peatusel, millestki läbi tulemises. Q tähte on kasutatud kahe heli tähistamiseks, sidudes seniolematut.
Q-d nimetatakse sabaga täheks.
✔️Q tähega algavad inglisekeelsed sõnad on toetanud meid kujundliku terviku loomisel ISCI täiendõppe süsteemile: quality, quiz, question, qualified, qualitative.
✔️Siit lehelt https://www.isci.ee/taiendope/ saad valida endale sobiva kursuse ning registreeruda õppesse. Tule ja saa osa kvaliteetsetest erialastest mikroõpetest!

16/02/2023

Mõtle mõnele olulisele hästi lõppenud sündmusele oma elus, olgu see siis kooli lõpetamine, sõpradele valmistatud õhtusöök või tööalane projekt. Kas usud, et see sündmus õnnestus tänu sinu pingutusele või on hea tulemus saatuse, juhuse ja muudest sinust mitte sõltuvatest asjaoludest...

07/02/2023
07/02/2023

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.”

Albert Einstein's life advice in a letter to his son Eduard on 5 February 1930. In the picture, Einstein is riding a bicycle in Santa Barbara, USA in 1933.

07/01/2023
SÜSTEEMNE COACHING JA KONSTELLATSIOONID ORGANISATSIOONISSüsteemse coachingu ja konstellatsioonide baaskoolitus I, “Välja...
20/12/2022

SÜSTEEMNE COACHING JA KONSTELLATSIOONID ORGANISATSIOONIS

Süsteemse coachingu ja konstellatsioonide baaskoolitus I, “Välja kaardistamine”, on arendatud John Whittingtoni poolt, kes on süsteemne coach ja raamatu “Systemic Coaching and Constellations” autor. Koolitus tutvustab süsteemse coachingu ja konstellatsioonide metoodikat, mida on võimalik kasutada individuaalses, grupi- ja meeskonna coachingus.
Koolitusele on oodatud coachid, superviisorid ning kõik inimestega töötavad juhid ning spetsialistid, kes tahavad sügavamalt uurida ning suunata organisatsioonides toimuvaid protsesse.

Koolitus toimub eesti keeles, LaSpas Laulasmaal.

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