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Beyond Barriers CIC, Altrincham (2025)

23/12/2025

We’re asking you to trust us when we say ‘You’re allowed to reach out — even if a voice inside says you shouldn’t’.

At this time of year, many people struggle silently. Not because they don’t need support — but because an old inner message says:
“Don’t be a burden.”
“Other people have it worse.”
“You should be coping by now.”

That voice isn’t the truth.
It’s often an echo of past experiences where your needs weren’t met — not a reflection of what you deserve now.

Reaching out is not weakness.
It’s a healthy human response to being overwhelmed.

✨ Support is allowed.
💪🏻 Needing help is normal.
💜 You don’t have to earn care.

If something feels heavy this Christmas, you don’t have to hold it alone.

23/12/2025

We’re asking you to trust us when we say ‘You’re allowed to reach out — even if a voice inside says you shouldn’t’.

At this time of year, many people struggle silently. Not because they don’t need support — but because an old inner message says:
“Don’t be a burden.”
“Other people have it worse.”
“You should be coping by now.”

That voice isn’t the truth.
It’s often an echo of past experiences where your needs weren’t met — not a reflection of what you deserve now.

Reaching out is not weakness.
It’s a healthy human response to being overwhelmed.

✨ Support is allowed.
💪🏻 Needing help is normal.
💜 You don’t have to earn care.

If something feels heavy this Christmas, you don’t have to hold it alone.

22/12/2025

We wish you a safe and peaceful festive break and look forward to seeing you in the new year x

21/12/2025

Most people will be missing someone this Christmas. They may have been gone for a long time now or it could be one of those early Christmases without them. And so this time of year will connect many of us to some feelings of grief as well as love.

We live in a world that tends to push down emotions and sometimes even treat them as problems or illnesses, but grief is one of those times were sadness is not only understandable, but also important because it reminds us of the meaning that someone brought us and our journey to heal from that loss.

So the invitation today is to draw on your courage and move towards that grief with the wisdom that you will be able to cope with it. And I want to share a lovely idea for remembering loved ones from our lovely neighbours Circle Funerals in

Or maybe you want to think about your own meaningful way of remembering loved ones over the next couple of days?
Many people find comfort in creating small rituals of remembrance:
✨ A bauble on the tree
✨ A name written and held close
✨ A moment to pause and remember a shared story

These acts don’t deepen the pain — they often soften it. From a psychological perspective, continuing bonds with those we’ve lost can bring grounding, comfort, and a sense of ongoing connection.

This is why we love the idea of memory baubles — simple, tangible reminders that love doesn’t disappear just because someone is no longer physically present.

Whether you choose to remember a person, a pet, a relationship, or a chapter of life that’s ended

You can make space for them at Christmas and beyond x

21/12/2025

🎄DAY 21 - Remembering with love 💜

Most people will be missing someone this Christmas. They may have been gone for a long time now or it could be one of those early Christmases without them. And so this time of year will connect many of us to some feelings of grief as well as love.

We live in a world that tends to push down emotions and sometimes even treat them as problems or illnesses, but grief is one of those times were sadness is not only understandable, but also important because it reminds us of the meaning that someone brought us and our journey to heal from that loss.

So the invitation today is to draw on your courage and move towards that grief with the wisdom that you will be able to cope with it. And I want to share a lovely idea for remembering loved ones from our lovely neighbours Circle Funerals in

Or maybe you want to think about your own meaningful way of remembering loved ones over the next couple of days?
Many people find comfort in creating small rituals of remembrance:
✨ A bauble on the tree
✨ A name written and held close
✨ A moment to pause and remember a shared story

These acts don’t deepen the pain — they often soften it. From a psychological perspective, continuing bonds with those we’ve lost can bring grounding, comfort, and a sense of ongoing connection.

This is why we love the idea of memory baubles — simple, tangible reminders that love doesn’t disappear just because someone is no longer physically present.

Whether you choose to remember a person, a pet, a relationship, or a chapter of life that’s ended

You can make space for them at Christmas and beyond x

21/12/2025

🎄Day 20 💜 Christmas can ask a lot of our nervous systems. The noise, the pace, the expectations can quietly push us into survival mode. When that happens, comfort doesn’t need to be grand or festive — it needs to be real and regulating.

Psychology reminds us that our bodies settle through glimmers — small, sensory experiences that signal safety:
✨ the weight of a blanket
✨ a familiar song
✨ stepping outside and noticing the sky
✨ a warm drink in your hands

You don’t have to fix Christmas.
You don’t have to feel joyful all the time.

Sometimes managing this season simply means noticing one small thing that helps your body soften — and letting that be enough.

What small glimmer of comfort is around you right now?

19/12/2025

🎄Day 19💜 Stepping back from Christmas & New years eve for a while isn’t about rejecting the season. It’s about protecting your mind and body from being overwhelmed by a single theme, pace, or expectations.

🌿 1. Anchor to what’s constant, not seasonal
Christmas is like looking through a festive filter. Your body & mind benefit from noticing whats constant & hasnt changed.
Try grounding attention in:
• Usual daily routines (making tea, walking the dog, washing up)
• Your body - your breath moving in and out, the feel of your feet on the floor
These powerful mindfulness anchors will signal safety and continuity to your nervous system when you need it.

🧠 2. Widen your attention
Stress narrows focus. But Mindfulness helps us widen the lens.
If your mind is stuck on Christmas tasks or pressures, gently ask “What else is here, right now?”
Notice:
• Sounds in the room, Light through a window
• A neutral or pleasant sensation in the body
You’re not pushing Christmas away — you’re making space alongside it.

🌊 3. Allow moments that are “not festive”
There’s often pressure to feel festive, reflective, grateful, or joyful. But mindfulness includes permission for:
• Ordinary moments, Quiet moments
• Bored moments
• Non-Christmas thoughts
From a compassion-focused view, your nervous system needs to feel neutral as much as joy.

🌱 4. Choose one non-Christmas anchor each day
• A podcast or music unrelated to Christmas?
• A walk focused on nature, not lights or lists?
• A creative or work task that feels absorbing
This isn’t avoidance — it’s self-regulation.

💛 5. You’re giving yourself permission
Ironically, trying too hard to “Manage Christmas” can create stress. Noticing this and giving yourself permission to step away at this time of year might sound like:
“Right now, I’m allowed to think about something else.”
That permission alone often brings relief.

✨ In short
Coping through December isn’t about constant presence in the festive moment.
It’s about noticing the need to step away for a while, returning to yourself, again and again — through breath, body, routine, and choice

19/12/2025

🎄Day 19💜 Stepping back from Christmas & New years eve for a while isn't about rejecting the season. It’s about protecting your mind and body from being overwhelmed by a single theme, pace, or expectations.

🌿 1. Anchor to what’s constant, not seasonal
Christmas is like looking through a festive filter. Your body & mind benefit from noticing whats constant & hasnt changed.
Try grounding attention in:
• Usual daily routines (making tea, walking the dog, washing up)
• Your body - your breath moving in and out, the feel of your feet on the floor
These powerful mindfulness anchors will signal safety and continuity to your nervous system when you need it.

🧠 2. Widen your attention
Stress narrows focus. But Mindfulness helps us widen the lens.
If your mind is stuck on Christmas tasks or pressures, gently ask “What else is here, right now?”
Notice:
• Sounds in the room, Light through a window
• A neutral or pleasant sensation in the body
You’re not pushing Christmas away — you’re making space alongside it.

🌊 3. Allow moments that are “not festive”
There’s often pressure to feel festive, reflective, grateful, or joyful. But mindfulness includes permission for:
• Ordinary moments, Quiet moments
• Bored moments
• Non-Christmas thoughts
From a compassion-focused view, your nervous system needs to feel neutral as much as joy.

🌱 4. Choose one non-Christmas anchor each day
• A podcast or music unrelated to Christmas?
• A walk focused on nature, not lights or lists?
• A creative or work task that feels absorbing
This isn’t avoidance — it’s self-regulation.

💛 5. You’re giving yourself permission
Ironically, trying too hard to “Manage Christmas” can create stress. Noticing this and giving yourself permission to step away at this time of year might sound like:
“Right now, I’m allowed to think about something else.”
That permission alone often brings relief.

✨ In short
Coping through December isn’t about constant presence in the festive moment.
It’s about noticing the need to step away for a while, returning to yourself, again and again — through breath, body, routine, and choice

19/12/2025

🎄Day 18🎄Yesterday we reflected on our breath as a steady companion — something that stays with us through every moment of the festive season.

Today’s invitation is simple:
What if, instead of trying to fix or push away how you’re feeling, you allowed your breath to help you meet it gently?

From a clinical psychology and nervous system perspective, breathing isn’t about calming down perfectly. It’s about creating just enough safety for emotions to move through us without overwhelming us.

When things feel intense, the breath can:
✨ Slow the body’s threat response
✨ Signal safety to the nervous system
✨ Help emotions soften rather than escalate

You don’t need special equipment, quiet space, or the “right” mindset — just a few moments of attention.

👇 In the comments, you’ll find a short breathing practice you can return to whenever December feels too much.
Think of it as a pause button — not to escape the moment, but to support yourself within it.

Small practices, repeated gently, really do add up. . # PleaseShare

17/12/2025

🎄Day 17💜 'Your breath is your
closest companion - sometimes the most important thing
in a whole day is the rest we take between two deep breaths'

When the festive season brings heightened emotions, busy schedules, or moments of overwhelm, your breath is always available to you — quiet, steady, and regulating.

From a polyvagal perspective, slow, intentional breathing sends signals of safety to the nervous system via the vagus nerve. This helps shift us out of fight, flight, or shutdown, and back into a state where we can feel calmer, more connected, and more present.

You could try something..
✨ Gently inhale through your nose for 4 counts
✨ Slowly exhale, a little longer than the inhale,
✨ Pause briefly before the next breath

That pause matters. It gives your nervous system a moment to reset.

Diaphragmatic breathing or 'belly breathing'
Maybe this festive season is an invitation to begin — and perhaps make conscious breathing part of how you care for yourself in 2026 and beyond.

17/12/2025

🎄Day 16💜 Are relationships on your mind more this time of year? You’re not alone with that. But connection can feel complicated though. For some of us, that feeling of connection is abundant. For others, it feels distant, strained, or heavy with expectation. For others, it can feel complicated, exhausting, or even lonely.

Connection doesn’t need to be big or perfect to be meaningful. Wisdom and research shows us that small moments of relational safety — brief, genuine interactions — help calm our nervous system and find more security.

Connection can look like:
✨ A kind exchange with a stranger
✨ Sitting alongside someone without needing to talk
✨ Sharing a bit of humour or appreciation with someone. Even a shared ranty moment!

These moments don’t erase difficulties — but they balance them. They remind us we are part of something human, even in quiet ways.

Could you try to notice if your longing for more connection, and rather than automatically seeking more. Simply notice what’s already there.

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