13/01/2026
Why ‘just be confident’ doesn’t work
(And what actually does)
You can’t just decide to feel confident
That’s like saying ‘just be happy’ or ‘just stop being anxious’
The real issue?
It’s not lack of confidence
It’s unprocessed fear, imposter syndrome, and a nervous system that sees speaking up as danger
Communication training teaches WHAT to say
But misses WHY you freeze in the first place
Swipe through for what actually works 💭
Which slide hit hardest? Drop the number below 👇
Ps: Working on something for people ready to do the deeper work. Psychology + communication. Stay tuned 🤍