23/03/2026
This is why you still feel tense, even when you rest
A lot of people say to me,
“I try to relax… but my body just doesn’t switch off.”
You sit down.
You stop.
But your shoulders are still tight.
Your breathing is still a bit shallow.
That’s because it’s not just about rest.
It’s about the nervous system.
If your body has been in “on” mode for too long, it doesn’t instantly settle just because you’ve stopped moving.
It takes a bit more than that.
It needs the right conditions to feel safe enough to let go.
That’s when things start to shift.
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