
19/09/2025
🌸 Do you feel like you are constantly at loggerheads with your child? 🌸
Something I have learnt, having first become a parent in my late teens, and now raising young children in my 40s is this:
💓MAKE LIFE EASIER FOR YOURSELF 💓
Parenting doesn’t need to feel like a daily power struggle.
In my younger years, I often thought being a “good mum” meant saying no more often than yes, controlling situations, trying to shape behaviour, keeping everything in line.
But with time (and a whole lot of perspective), I’ve realised something powerful:
🌻Parenting is far more enjoyable when you loosen your grip🌻
Say yes to the little things.
Yes to the messy play, yes to the extra story, yes to the outfit that doesn’t match.
Sometimes the battles we think we need to fight are really just our need to control, not our children’s need to be corrected.
🌸 When you give yourself permission to let go, you give your children room to grow, explore, feel trusted, and you give yourself the gift of peace
🩷 parenting should be something we enjoy 💕not something we endure 💓