05/12/2019
No matter how low or sad you may feel or how disheartening life sometimes may be, never be tempted to constantly blame yourself for everything nor feel that the world is against you. The easiest thing in the world is to give up and hide away, but don’t, because there are a lot of people out there who would love to have a friend like you.
One of the most important decisions you can ever make is to ensure that you never succumb to lowering
your standards just to please others and you must never make the mistake of settling for less than you deserve because second best can never be first best. You are a unique individual in your own right and deserve to be loved, revered, honoured and respected for the special human that you are.
Why settle for the mundane when you can create something quite unique and beautiful for yourself? Always take your time and never allow anyone to rush or push you into anything that instinctively feels wrong because in end, it will be. Start afresh by being prepared to
wait patiently for something you really want because everything is about perfect timing and will not appear nor be made possible until the time is exactly right. What is meant for you will not go past you.
Each new day presents an opportunity for you to grow, evolve, mature and learn important lessons about yourself, others and the world around you. Be your own best friend by starting to be kinder to yourself so that you are able to rest, heal and become whole again. It’s important that you work at finding yourself because until you accept who you are, you will struggle to understand others.
It’s important to always be guarded around certain people because you need to protect yourself from being used and abused. Not everyone you meet is genuine nor going to become a good friend to you. When someone treats you like one of their options, remove yourself from the equation, pull up the drawbridge and don’t let them back in again because people don’t change. If they have hurt you in the past, they will most likely hurt you again. Don’t give part time people a full time position because you are worth so much more than that.
You have the power within you to create anything you desire with limitless possibilities, but to make this happen, it’s vitality important that you develop a good, strong self belief system. There is a huge difference between settling for less than you deserve or having the confidence to move on and meet other like minded people who will appreciate your friendship and admire your finer points.
If something is right for you and part of your destiny,you won’t have to beg for it because it will be there for the taking. You should never have to negotiate or try to sales pitch yourself to a heart that doesn’t want you. Love yourself and want yourself the most.