14/04/2026
For a long time, I thought I was broken.
I went to therapy repeatedly over the years and each time I tried to do what was asked of me. I visualised as hard as I could. I tried to access the memory. I tried to hear the inner voice that everyone seemed to have access to.
Nothing came, and I assumed that was my fault.
I was in my forties before I discovered I have aphantasia and other invisible cognitive differences (no mental imagery, no inner sounds, no internal sensations). I always have had them, I just didn't know. But in the moment I understood why so much of my therapeutic experience had felt like trying to read a map in a language I'd never been taught.
That discovery changed everything.
I spent the years that followed learning everything I could about aphantasia, SDAM, anendophasia, anauralia, alexithymia, and what each one means for the way a person experiences therapy.
I trained. I researched. I wrote a book. I built a training programme, and I started talking about it publicly, because silence about this costs people years.
I do this work because I know there are people sitting in therapy rooms right now having the exact experience I had, and I know there are therapists who genuinely want to help them and simply haven't been given the tools.
That gap is what I'm here to close.
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