My Free Mind Counselling and Holistic Therapy

My Free Mind Counselling and Holistic Therapy Private Humanistic Counsellor & Psychotherapist (BA Hons, MBACP). Eco-Therapy, Somatic Trauma-Informed, Yoga-inspired. Walk & Talk, Online, Bournemouth-based.

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Did you know trauma can leave the body feeling unsafe, even when life is no longer dangerous?“Traumatized people chronic...
19/01/2026

Did you know trauma can leave the body feeling unsafe, even when life is no longer dangerous?

“Traumatized people chronically feel unsafe inside their bodies.”
— Bessel van der Kolk

Trauma isn’t just about what happened to us, but about how the body had to hold too much, too quickly, without enough support. The energy of survival doesn’t always get to complete itself.

There is nothing to fix here. This is the nervous system doing exactly what it learned to do to protect you.

Healing often begins gently — through small experiences of safety.
Slow walking. Feeling your feet on the ground. Noticing what feels steady or okay. Letting the breath be just as it is.

Over time, these moments help the body soften and find its way back toward balance.
In therapy, the relationship forms the container of safety — so the body doesn’t have to do this alone.

If this resonates with you - you’re not alone.


A Gentle Nervous System Reminder ☀️Did you know?An emotion in the body typically lasts around 60–90 seconds. That initia...
17/01/2026

A Gentle Nervous System Reminder ☀️
Did you know?
An emotion in the body typically lasts around 60–90 seconds. That initial wave is the nervous system responding to a trigger. What makes emotions feel like they last much longer is re-activation, or replaying what happened, anticipating what might happen next, or attaching meaning to the experience. Recognise this?

The work isn’t to suppress feelings, but to notice when the body has completed the wave: slow your exhale, name the sensation (not the story), stay for a minute, then gently ground through your feet or breath.

Who’s joining me for our next Wandering Women’s walking circle? Back to the heart of the New Forest we will Slow down. B...
17/01/2026

Who’s joining me for our next Wandering Women’s walking circle? Back to the heart of the New Forest we will Slow down. Breathe. Reconnect.
A gently facilitated walk with quiet noticing, optional sharing, and space to simply be.

No experience needed — just yourself, curiosity, and comfortable clothing.

📅 31st Jan ⏰ 10:30am
📩 DM to reserve your place

“You’re welcome exactly as you are.”.

We are gathering for the first Wandering Woman’s Walk of 2026 —an invitation to winter rather than rush.January is not a...
11/01/2026

We are gathering for the first Wandering Woman’s Walk of 2026 —
an invitation to winter rather than rush.

January is not a time to push forward.
Nature is turning inward — slowing, resting, conserving —
and this walk honours that rhythm.

We’ll meet at the car park and wander together,
held in gentle connection with one another and the land.

The walk will be slow and spacious.
Along the way, I’ll offer gentle mindful practices
to support grounding, presence, and wellbeing.

We’ll pause together in a quiet place among the trees,
allowing time to notice, breathe, and simply be.

This is an invitation to be in nature,
held amongst other women,
just as you are.

10/01/2026

Walking with the season,
with the land beneath our feet,
and with ourselves — just as we are.

The first Wandering Women’s Walk of 2026 takes place in the heart of the New Forest.
A slow, mindful walking circle — not a hike, but a space to arrive gently.

More details to follow.
Who will you walk with?

Walking along the beach with a client recently, she said,“How lovely it is that you get to work here.”And she’s right — ...
09/01/2026

Walking along the beach with a client recently, she said,
“How lovely it is that you get to work here.”

And she’s right — it is lovely.
But it’s also deeply intentional.

There was a time when I was exhausted in ways that couldn’t be fixed by rest alone. I was holding a lot — supporting others, raising a family, running a business — while quietly carrying experiences that shaped me more than I realised at the time.

I knew I wanted to work differently.
I just didn’t yet know how.

Training as a yoga teacher became a turning point. It gave me grounding, helped me understand my body in a new way, and taught me how to support myself when I needed it most. Through yoga, somatic work, and time in nature, I learned how deeply our experiences live in the body — and how powerful it can be to meet ourselves with patience and care.

Becoming a counsellor grew from that lived understanding — from seeing how transformative it is when someone is met with presence rather than pressure, and space rather than solutions.

Nature became the place where I could breathe again. Where thoughts softened. Where perspective returned. Over time, it felt natural that this is where I would offer that same space to others — whether walking one-to-one or gathering women together to wander, breathe, and reconnect.

Now I get to walk alongside people — creating room to talk, reflect, and gently make sense of what they’re carrying.

And yes… it is lovely.
Because it’s work shaped by life, intention, and a deep belief that healing doesn’t have to be hurried.
Sometimes it begins simply by walking side by side. 🌿

07/01/2026

Red January invites us to move in our own way.

For me today, that looks like breath-led steps and slowing down enough for the nervous system to feel safe.

No pressure. Just presence. #

06/01/2026

January can feel heavy — and that’s okay. ❄️

Mid-winter is meant for rest, yet the world pushes action, resolutions, and performance. Almost half of us report winter affects our mental health.

Hearing about RED January reminded me that small, gentle acts of movement and connection can really support wellbeing. 🌿

I invite you to join RED January in your own way — free, gentle, and without pressure. Notice how you rise each day. 💛

✨ Gentle ideas: a short walk, feeling your feet on the earth, breathing with the trees, connecting with someone, or noticing what winter offers. https://www.instagram.com/redjanuaryuk?igsh=NGZ4enEzY3NiZjFj

06/01/2026

Such a privilege to be able to hold space in this way ☀️ When we walk side by side in nature, the nervous system often softens.
Places like the beach can hold our stories —
offering rhythm, containment, and a reminder that emotions, like tides, are designed to move

I have space.Morning Walk & Talk therapy sessions are currently available.If sitting in a room feels too much, we can wa...
05/01/2026

I have space.

Morning Walk & Talk therapy sessions are currently available.

If sitting in a room feels too much, we can walk side by side instead — allowing movement, fresh air, and the wider landscape to support the nervous system as we talk.

These sessions can be helpful if you’re feeling:
• overwhelmed or anxious
• stuck or disconnected
• in transition
• in need of space to breathe and be heard

Therapy, but your way.
Where the beach becomes our container.

📩 Message me to enquire

02/01/2026

Happy New Year 🎉💖 A warm thank you to everyone who has shared this space with me —
those who meet me here online, and those who have walked alongside me on Wandering Women’s nature walks.

2025 was a big year, and I’m deeply grateful to hold space in my private practice and within our circles outdoors as we cross the threshold into 2026.

The festive season can feel disorienting — those “what day is it?” moments — and then suddenly a new calendar year arrives, often carrying pressure to begin, change, or become.

My New Year was spent in the mountains, held by stillness… and also by snow.
Roads closed, travel disrupted, plans moving beyond my control — a gentle reminder of how often life asks us to release what we cannot manage.

Have you noticed how, when we focus our attention on what is out of our control, the nervous system often shifts into tension and urgency? When we gently return to what is within our control — our breath, our body, our pace — regulation becomes possible.

So for a moment, pause.
Slow your exhale.
Feel your feet, or notice where your body is supported.

And remember, we are still in mid-winter — a season for slowing, deep rest, and regeneration.

You do not need a plan.
You do not need to rush a beginning.
You are allowed to arrive here, gently.

Let 2026 meet you at the pace your body needs

22/12/2025

Christmas is different for everybody filled with expectations of joy or performing.
Simple ways to lower anxiety this Christmas

When the nervous system feels stretched — by noise, expectations, or old memories — small, rhythmic practices can help bring it back to safety.

🌊 A gentle walk
Lowers cortisol and supports mood by boosting dopamine and serotonin.

❄️ Cold water on the face
Activates the dive reflex, slowing the heart rate and calming the body quickly.

🌲 Familiar scents
Pine or lavender soothe the limbic system, reducing stress and emotional reactivity.

🎶 Soft humming
Just 30 seconds of vibration stimulates the vagus nerve and settles anxiety.

🌬️ 4-7-8 breathing
Inhale for 4, hold for 7, exhale for 8 — a signal of safety to the brain.

You don’t need to escape Christmas.
You just need moments where your body remembers it is safe.

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