Spectrum For Change

Spectrum For Change Let us help you break free from the emotional and mental limitations that shape your reality. When they change, life changes 🌟

Emotions and beliefs lie at the core of every challenge in life, shaping our actions, reactions, decisions, and how we perform.

Meet Carol (we have permission to share - thank you). Carol has always been scared of big dogs due to an experience she ...
19/04/2025

Meet Carol (we have permission to share - thank you). Carol has always been scared of big dogs due to an experience she had as a child. Emotions of fear and anxiety, bound her to the experience, like they do us all.

She was due to visit her son who had a big dog and knew it was going to be a problem.

A very short session of Spectrum, changing the negative emotions connected to the experience to positive feelings, allowed her visit to her son to be more enjoyable and relaxed.

This photo was sent to us today 👏❤️

She has always walked her small dog with her partner and he hasn’t been able to join her because of health issues which makes walking her dog more stressful. Now she will be able to enjoy those walks again without the fear and worry of seeing a big dog.

This is the power of Spectrum. If it can change this one memory, what else can it change? The answer to that is anything you want it to 🦋

16/03/2025

If you are someone who is constantly battling with the internal rhetoric of your mind; words that you would never speak to others, yet find yourself speaking to you, this might be worth a read.

As someone who used to have a very unhealthy relationship with myself, which was very evident in the thoughts I used to have, it really pains me to hear and see others who struggle with the same internal battle, because there is no need to continue living that way. True freedom, for me, has come from being free from my mind and the old broken records I carried with me; no matter where I went.

Extensive bullying was at the route cause of much of my own lack of self esteem and limiting beliefs. It resulted in so much self criticism, judgement, constant questioning why anyone would want to connect to me, doubt, lack of trust, constant giving up on me and feeling resentful as we see much of the same with the people we work with.

It was a broken record in my head that I fought with daily and never knew the legacy of the life experiences I had in my formative years and how I simply created much of the same as I got older, because of my mindset, until I starting peeling back the layers of life experience emotionally. Only when that happened, did thoughts leave me. Negative emotions bind us to the past, and cause worry about the future, and when they change, we become happier in the moment.

We don’t see the way the world is, we see the world the way we are and we attract unconsciously based on what we are holding, and many don’t know. It’s not unusual for people to come to us and believe they have resolved an area of their life, to simply realise they have intellectualised it.

It might surprise you to know that those thoughts I used to have, have gone now and they have only gone because I found a model that gets to the unconscious drivers which create our thoughts; the unconscious drivers which make us repeat old unwanted behavioural patterns; the drivers which lead some to complex mental health or inability to perform to our best.

It is alway our feelings and beliefs that determine how well we navigate life, the quality of our self talk, the reactions we have and how well we perform.

Happiness starts with creating it inside and building a healthier relationship with self. If you, or anyone you know is ready to experience what freedom really feels like, please do make contact.

Victoria 🦋

06/03/2025

We are in the middle of running a change programme to help people change their emotional relationship to life experiences such as divorce, abuse, bullying etc etc. some of these experiences can happen very quickly and remain with us for the rest of our lives at the level of mind. The only reason they stay is that emotions bind us to them.

When children are involved with divorce, it can leave parents feeling immense responsibility for taking their children through that journey, as we discovered with one lady on our programme.

She said the guilt was immense that she would never be able to let it go and it was clearly having an impact on her happiness and ability to enjoy life.

I said to her “it will go in about half an hour after we had resolved the emotions connected to the word responsibility”.

That’s quite an incredible statement to contemplate that something we have held for so long can disappear like that, and that is the power of Spectrum and what it was designed to do. I ask her “who would you be without the responsibility?” Well, she found out about half an hour later.

I commend her courage because facing some experiences that don’t feel very nice can be difficult and the beauty of Spectrum is, we are only interested in the word and the emotions - no content is required, and when they change, our mind changes and our life changes.

We are all made of of life experiences, and the words which describe our journey holds the emotions and the key to us moving beyond them so that the way no longer hold our mind, and we can say goodbye to them so create a happier future.

All of us carry these experiences with us. We take them wherever we go and they determine our happiness, our performance and inhibit our ability to to embrace a present moment.

So, if you want to regain some mind space, feel happier and create a different life, Spectrum will help you do that 🦋

03/03/2025

Spectrum is an interesting and powerful model for change. I have just been exchanging some messages with someone we have worked with and I felt compelled to share. It’s the first year since the loss of his son that he can laugh and reconnect to his love without the mental torment that has plagued his mind for so long. It’s quite extraordinary.

We all have life experiences and I have had my share just like anyone else. Some experiences people would think you could never let go of, and you can, reclaiming your life, your happiness and your future. It’s our minds which make us relive painful times and Spectrum sets us free.

This is what makes our work so amazing and so rewarding. It has made my day listening to him.

It is all about restoring love in our hearts and Spectrum is so elegant at doing it.

Victoria 🦋

27/02/2025

This powerful video features testimonials from five veterans who have endured the devastating effects of PTSD. At Spectrum for Change, we understand (C)/PTSD as the culmination of life experiences reaching a breaking point, making it impossible to function. However, when these layers of experience are lifted, PTSD can dissipate.

This is the transformative power of Spectrum. Our research-based, non-trauma-focused approach—developed by a veteran who has now been awarded a doctorate for his innovative model for mental health and mindset, and has been trialled in some of the most complex cases, including individuals deemed beyond the reach of traditional support systems like Combat Stress and Help for Heroes. Launched at the University of Central Lancashire, this method helps to release the emotional burden of past experiences that contribute to PTSD and other diagnosis and addictions.

Rather than focusing on PTSD itself, we guide individuals in addressing the underlying emotional triggers, empowering them to reclaim their lives.

26/02/2025

At Spectrum for Change, we recognise and work with the multitude of labels and diagnoses assigned to various behavioural patterns, with ADHD currently being a prevalent one. We understand behaviours and their driving forces and upon exploration of the behavioural symptoms associated with ADHD, it's clear to us that they are traits common to both adults and children alike. In fact, if I reflect on my former self, I would have been well on the spectrum! The question is, did I have ADHD or was I emotional and has ADHD become an umbrella term for just being human?

Whilst receiving a diagnosis often provides individuals with a sense of clarity, explaining their actions and emotions, it can still pose challenges for both the individual and those around them. One significant aspect that remains relatively unexplored, despite existing studies, is the connection to our emotional well-being. Through our work at Spectrum, we have observed these behaviours in many individuals, and at the heart of them were an accumulation of life experiences, which some might refer to as trauma. Have you ever wondered who you would be without some of those experiences? Have you ever stopped to reflect on who you were one year ago, five years ago, ten years ago? Have you ever contemplated the things you have stopped doing or started doing? Less confidence, not going out so much, becoming withdrawn, increased worrying, not sleeping so well......and the list goes on. Of course, people say "well, it has made me who I am today" but we still hold the emotions connected to that journey.

Our behaviours are intricately linked to our emotions, beliefs, conflicts, and barriers, operating as unconscious responses to stimuli. While each person is unique, the fundamental components influencing our behaviour remain consistent. Like any other label or diagnosis, at Spectrum for Change, we prefer to help people identify and change the connection to the events that led to the presenting behavioural symptoms and current state of being. Spectrum's approach was specifically designed by Dr Mick Stott to address these core components, cultivating new behaviours and realities by reducing emotional burdens and transforming internal belief systems and the research supports this.

Below is a link to research by Mills, S & Hulbert‐Williams, L (2012) which was published in Counselling Psychology Quarterly, 25 (3), pg 319‐330.
The paper distinguishes between treatment efficacy and effectiveness in the treatment of Post‐Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Implications for contentious therapies.

https://www.spectrumforchange.co.uk/_files/ugd/605736_45a0406d9a70428fba1ec9d22d702438.pdf

If we continue to do what we have always done, we can only ever expect to get what we have always got. So whatever it is you want to create more of or let go of, we are here to help so that you can become the best version of you, navigating life's challenges with less internal chatter, less reactions, greater resilience and internal happiness.

26/02/2025

If you are someone who is holding on to the past and think you can never change it, or there is something getting in your way of what you are seeking, or maybe you know of someone who is struggling, this right be a read for you.

There is nothing that can survive the Spectrum journey. It only takes one courageous step to try something different that gets different results. Most of what we think feel and do is driven by unconscious which holds the glue to our world which determines the way we see and live it. Spectrum gets to the glue in order to create something different.

We spend a lot of money taking care of our cars to ensure we are safe on the road, yet what do we invest in this vehicle we live, in our mind, body and spirit, to ensure it’s safe and can take us the places we want to go without the hiccups along the way?

Do what you have always done and only ever get what you have always got. Perhaps it is time to do something different 🤔 Are you ready?

15/02/2025

We warmly welcome you to our page where we hope to share insightful information with you about the mind, how it operates and more importantly, how life can change for you when your mind changes. My name is Victoria and my partners name is Mick, a veteran who served for thirty years in the British Army, and the master mind behind Spectrum which is and will continue to shape the world of mental health and coaching.

Our mind is unique to each and every one of us, and is shaped by our life experiences which all hold feelings and beliefs; they are the unconscious driving force behind everything we think, feel and do so if you want to think better thoughts, feel better and do better, do it the Spectrum way. It's proven time and time again to get results without the need for anyone to revisit experiences because we believe it is bad enough to be traumatised once, without doing it again.

We hope to create a community of like minded people who want a better world, and the better world starts with self. I have learned on my Spectrum journey that we have to be the change we want to see and start to sow seeds of love and that starts with establishing a loving relationship with self. Things happen to us and it's our mind which bind us to the experiences emotionally which impact on our own internal happiness and prevent us from accessing our true potential and essence. Together, we can shape and evolve humanity by being the change we want to see in the world. When we heal, the world starts to heal.

Have a beautiful day
Victoria

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