27/02/2026
What a life! What a legacy! What an inspiration!
“What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built;
not what you got, but what you gave.
What will matter is not what you learned, but what you taught.
What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others.”
Michael Josephson
This epitomises the life of Charmouth resident, James Ray Wilkinson, whose celebration of life I had the honour of conducting yesterday.
As a woodworking and outdoor pursuits teacher, Ray built a 28ft boat – Odette, from one inch strip planking, persuaded future wife, Julia, to crew for him on an epic journey from the Bahamas to the UK and nearly drowned in the process!
Back in the UK, he developed outdoor pursuits centres for teachers and students, day sailing centres in Essex and built racing dinghies from fibreglass moulds to enable Essex schools to win 5 out of 5 races.
Ray’s determination, vision, people skills and sense of humour made him a leader that it was a joy to work with and changed the lives of thousands of people and will continue as ripple effect of impact across the world.
"Living a life that matters doesn’t happen by accident.
It’s not a matter of circumstance but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters." Michael Josephson