Sylvia Joy Baldock, Funeral Celebrant

Sylvia Joy Baldock, Funeral Celebrant You only get one chance to organise a funeral that is a fitting tribute to your loved one.

Creating a ceremony that is exactly what you and they would want is where I come in.

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04/03/2026

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03/03/2026

It means so much to hear feedback like this from a celebration of a very special life last week -

"We can’t thank Sylvia enough for the care and compassion she showed our family. She took the time to visit us at home, met all of the family, and really listened to our stories about Dad. That personal touch meant so much to us and made the whole service feel truly special.

The ceremony was beautiful and incredibly memorable. Every detail was handled with such sensitivity and professionalism, and the poem she chose was so apt – it perfectly captured Dad and everything he stood for.

We’re so grateful for the thought, warmth and dignity she brought to such an important day. We would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone looking for a truly personal and meaningful service.

It's so heartwarming to know that what you do really does make a difference.

What a life! What a legacy! What an inspiration!“What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built;not what yo...
27/02/2026

What a life! What a legacy! What an inspiration!

“What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built;
not what you got, but what you gave.
What will matter is not what you learned, but what you taught.
What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others.”
Michael Josephson

This epitomises the life of Charmouth resident, James Ray Wilkinson, whose celebration of life I had the honour of conducting yesterday.
As a woodworking and outdoor pursuits teacher, Ray built a 28ft boat – Odette, from one inch strip planking, persuaded future wife, Julia, to crew for him on an epic journey from the Bahamas to the UK and nearly drowned in the process!
Back in the UK, he developed outdoor pursuits centres for teachers and students, day sailing centres in Essex and built racing dinghies from fibreglass moulds to enable Essex schools to win 5 out of 5 races.
Ray’s determination, vision, people skills and sense of humour made him a leader that it was a joy to work with and changed the lives of thousands of people and will continue as ripple effect of impact across the world.

"Living a life that matters doesn’t happen by accident.
It’s not a matter of circumstance but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters." Michael Josephson

11/02/2026

What stories would you like your loved ones to share? Link in comments below for a free guide on how to make time to talk with your families and tell them more about your life. Give them the best chance to make your eulogy a true representation of all you have achieved and experienced.

Surrounded by Love – What an honour it was to conduct a true celebration of the life of local man - Glyn Peach, who cont...
03/02/2026

Surrounded by Love – What an honour it was to conduct a true celebration of the life of local man - Glyn Peach, who contributed hugely to the fabric and history of Bridport.

The wonderful Bridport Art Centre was the perfect venue for this special day followed by a joyful Wake at Feast cafe.

Glyn began repairing washing machines, tumble dryers, fridges and most domestic appliances from his garage in Bridport until neighbours complained about the noise, and he had to take the business elsewhere, eventually opening – ‘Peach Electrical’ on South Street.

Glyn had a heart of gold and gave so much to so many and over the years he helped thousands of people –

Mums who couldn’t get the school uniform out of the washing machine
Little old ladies whose freezer had packed up and all their food was defrosting
People whose cooker went wrong on Christmas Eve
Old peoples’ homes that needed help
Oldies who couldn’t change the battery on their phones
The farmer who needed a cheap radio to keep his cows happy
People who couldn’t get deliveries from anywhere else because they lived in a field or up a spiral staircase

Whatever the need – Glyn stepped up to help!

The manager of his shop, Shirley, said – “He was so kind and always helping our lovely customers, popping out after work to anyone in need, so generous with his time and usually not charging. Not quite sure how he made any money!!

When I asked the family what he would be most proud of
- the following came to mind –

• His time in the Navy
• His shop and all the people he served
• All his children and his grandchildren.

Some lovely words from his children –
“There was nothing you would not have done for any of us, you had the most selfless mindset to all that knew you.

You were the best dad in the world.

I will always be proud I had you as my dad.

You helped so many people through your business, your kindness and your love of life, and for that, you will forever be known as the man with the purest of hearts.

I always remember how much you brightened up each day with your laughter, your sense of humour, your smile and your dance moves.

We all will remember you in our thoughts and hearts. So, you will always live on forever and always.

How wonderful to leave this earth knowing you have touched the lives of so many.

Who lights up your life? Say how you feel before it’s too late!How often do you let people know about the positive impac...
21/01/2026

Who lights up your life?

Say how you feel before it’s too late!

How often do you let people know about the positive impact they have had on you or people you know?

We are often reluctant to praise others or to let them know how precious they are for fear of rejection or embarrassment.
As a funeral celebrant, I often hear people say they wish they had told their loved one what a difference they had made to their lives and how much they love them – yet when they are seeing me – it is too late to say the words face to face.

In planning the funeral - we find the words/poems/readings to express some of their feelings and that does help but so many wish they had shared their deep appreciation with their loved one before they passed.

We all need to know we are making a difference to others, no matter how good we may be at our job/relationships etc

I love my work, and I know I have very happy clients but receiving a few words like this, really makes my day – we all doubt ourselves sometimes.

“We would just like to sincerely thank you for your help, understanding and professionalism in the way you prepared and carried out your role as Funeral Celebrant at my wife and our mother's funeral last Friday. Your help and advice in preparing the Eulogy and the general organising of the funeral was absolutely outstanding, and this was perfectly recognised by the positive responses we have received from a number of the attendees at the funeral.
Thank you once again for making a very difficult and sad day so bearable.”

This really made me smile!

Whose face will you put a smile on today?

How well do you know your loved one? Practicing what I preach and 'interviewing' my husband, Tom to find out more about ...
16/01/2026

How well do you know your loved one? Practicing what I preach and 'interviewing' my husband, Tom to find out more about his earlier years and influences on his current life, I have only just found out that he represented his school at athletics and cross-country running and was the top runner in the county for a period of time. - we have been together 37 years and I knew he was a runner but not at that level!
Gathering info for a future eulogy may seem morbid but actually, it gives us so much more information on our family, sparks up new conversations and feels so good when the time comes - to know you have truly celebrated and honoured your loved one's life.

A few more questions I will be asking my clients today about the life of their 97 year old mother -

What was she passionate about?
What made her laugh?
What made her angry?
What made her cry?
What would she be most proud of achieving/doing in her life?
How would she want to be remembered?

Remember - listen to understand not to speak - real listening opens the flow of memories and words.

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