30/12/2025
This conversation isn’t about surviving menopause. It’s about claiming power, pleasure, and potency on the other side of it.
Sally sits down with Carla Wainwright, holistic wellness coach, s*xual awakening facilitator, and self-described midlife alchemist, for a grounding, myth-shattering conversation about what really happens when women cross into midlife.
With a background in biology, homeopathy, and over 30 years of embodiment work, Carla bridges science and the sacred in a way that feels practical, embodied, and deeply liberating. This is where metabolism, hormones, trauma, pleasure, and feminine power actually meet.
Together, they explore why menopause is not a decline but a rite of passage, and why the years after perimenopause can become the most creative, s*xually alive, and authentic chapter of a woman’s life when she’s properly supported.
Carla shares her own journey from wildlife biologist to guiding women through s*xual healing and midlife transformation, and how entering perimenopause herself led her to develop her model of sacred metabolism. This approach goes beyond blood sugar and hormones to include the nervous system, inner child, and feminine life force.
They unpack how unstable blood sugar can keep women stuck in fight-or-flight, intensify trauma, worsen symptoms, and quietly erode desire. Why pleasure isn’t indulgent, and why many women lose intimacy not because something is wrong with them, but because no one taught them how to stay connected to their changing bodies.
The episode also dives into s*x in midlife with honesty and tenderness. Desire, stress, self-trust, and reconnection are explored without shame or pressure, just curiosity, safety, and choice.
This is a conversation about remembering who you are in your body, your desire, and your power, at a stage of life that has been deeply misunderstood.
🎧👉 Listen here: https://apple.co/49edOj0