09/10/2021
In tribal cultures, integration is built into the Ayahuasca experience.
Except they don’t call it that.
It’s just called community.
Community living together; helping each other; talking. A conversation around the breakfast pot. A conversation during a walk in the jungle. People just talking with each other.
Most people in Western cultures have lost this.
We’ve moved away from our close and extended family for study or work. We eat alone, sometimes not even paying attention to what we eat as we continue to work or watch netflix. A lot of us don’t have time for “chit chat” - every conversation needs a purpose.
Then we go to drink Ayahuasca to sort our lives out - “I’ll cram 2 ceremonies into the weekend, then I can be back at work on Monday a new me”.
But the real juice of this experience comes when you give it time and space. Time and space for the ceremonies; but also time and space for the integration.
Time and space to talk.
Time and space to be heard.
Time and space to listen to others, to relate to their experiences and see the similarities and the differences.
Time and space to make small changes, and to evaluate those changes.
Time and space to make mistakes, and then to have your resolve strengthened again by your integration community.
Madre Ayahuasca wants us to open our hearts and to give ourselves time and space; to give ourselves community we can trust; to give ourselves permission to become what she needs us to become for the benefit of this planet.
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Think of integration as a kindness - you are doing a kindness to yourself and all humanity by giving yourself the time and space to integrate the gifts that Madre Ayahuasca has given you.
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I spent 1 month with a mestizo shaman and his family in the Peruvian Amazon, drinking medicine every 2-4 days.
I would be sitting in the hammock pondering, and he would just sit down in the hammock next to me - sometimes in silence, sometimes chatting, sometimes playing music or singing icaros.
We let whatever surfaced, surface. If something was on my mind from a previous ceremony, I would share it and we would discuss it. This impromptu integration was critical to my process and it was beautiful.
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Integration seems to be the bit that people underestimate - either not thinking about it, or not making time for it.
But it is the critical bit that gives you the time and space to make those new patterns; to surface that repressed material in the unconsciousness and come to peace with it; to develop the beautiful new you that Madre Ayahuasca wants to help you to be.
That’s why we have created this group and page - since immersing ourselves deeply into the medicine work, we felt called to use our coaching skills to support people through their process, through their journey, and most importantly, through their integration process.
Let me know in the comments how much time have you given yourself in the past for integration? What have you done to help yourself integrate?